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writes:How can you keep a guy without sleeping with him in the beginning? andwhere do you draw the line when making contact? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Always wait as long as you feel comfortable before allowing a relationship to become sexual. Don't give in to pressure from the other person if it is not what you want to do - making love is about two people coming together because that is what they both want, not one person getting what they want regardless of the feelings of the other.And if a new partner loses interest because you haven't immediately moved a relationship onto a more intimate footing then it just means that they are not the right person for you as they are unwilling to compromise or respect your feelings.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 The same way you attracted him...with good conversation, respect and attractiveness. I draw the line at 3 or 4 dates personally depending on the guy.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 You will find a guy actually wants you more when you dont give him what he wants on the first night, and if he doesnt and he leaves then you knew that his intentions were only for one thing and youve had a lucky escape. Dont fret it girl, never give in on the first night.
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