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writes:My girlfriend went to her friends (friend #1 who is a girl) to hang out with friend #1 and friend #2(who is a guy, and has a crush on my girlfriend)She later texted me saying she was staying the night at friend #2's house.I later found out friend #1 was not with her at friend #2's house, and she slept in the same bed as friend #2. she claims nothing happened.. What should I do? I tried talking to her about it, and she just doesn't seem to understand how I feel about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Finnish her m8.
a girl wudnt sleep in anougher guys bed while goin out with sum1 if she wasnt intending to do sumthing.
it happend 2 me only 4weeks ago. i was heart broken and was stupid enough to stay with her bt then she did it again the next week.
save urself the pain
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Finnish her m8.
a girl wudnt sleep in anougher guys bed while goin out with sum1 if she wasnt intending to do sumthing.
it happend 2 me only 4weeks ago. i was heart broken and was stupid enough to stay with her bt then she did it again the next week.
save urself the pain
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reader, somethingannonymous  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 the same thing happened to me in my previous relationship. it bothered me the whole rest of the time i was with her (about another year), and i never found out if anything happened. do you think you can put that behind you? or will it just keep eating away at you, like it did me?
she can't give you the answer you want. her telling you that nothing happened isn't going to put your mind at ease. she shouldn't have put herself in that position in the first place. if she had any consideration for your feelings, she wouldn't have slept in the same bed as him. even if she didn't care if she was causing you to be suspicious, she shouldn't be sleeping in the same bed as other guys!
but that's just my opinion.
needless to say, that girlfriend of mine at the time is no longer my girlfriend -- i'm with someone i trust now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Um, was there another bed in the house she could have slept in? One plus two equals three, your girl is drawing you into a triangle of a mess. If I were you I would say see ya!
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reader, Azula  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Well it sounds like a test. If I were the girl and I know I'll be sleeping over a guy friend's house, which I think I will never do as long as I have a boy friend, I will inform my boy friend about it.
First, he will get angry, that's using the common sense. He must be angry or else he doesn't love, hell he don't care. Me, his girlfriend sleeping in a bed with another guy having crush on me.
If that was my boyfriend he could have gone mad and confronted the guy, or even worse.
You seems to be a good person to be able to ask this on this site. All I can say you have the right to be mad. Your girlfriend was wrong about it.
May I ask, how did you know that the guy has a crush on your girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): well it is very hard to prove either she had or had not because sex is like lightening no one know when exactly it well strike !!
but i think aslong as there is leing in this case than possibilities of them had sex are more realistic
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