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writes:I've recently started seeing this new guy...we actually had our second date yesterday (V-Day!). Anyway, the relationship has gotten physical, and he's confided in me that he has a hard time "finishing", especially while using a condom. I am on the pill, have been for awhile. But I'm just wondering if anybody knows, is it safe to let him finish inside me without a condom?
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reader, 2dancinfeetxx  +, writes (16 February 2009):
HELLOOO STDS! especially if you recently met him, not a good idea. and even if he tells you he doesnt have one, he could be lying or not even know. wait till you get to really know him and his past experiences before you take such a risk with your health. one night of pleasure could end up completely destroying your life. try female condoms if he can't finish using male condoms, or tell him you want to get tested before you take it to the next step
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reader, Replacement +, writes (16 February 2009):
 My girl and I have been having sex for years with just the pill and no condoms... she's not been knocked up yet (fingers crossed, knock on wood). Condoms make sex difficult for a lot of men (most men)- they make the sex less pleasurable, and for lots of guys make them lose their erections completely. So if you want to go bareback make sure you take the pill correctly (same time every day).
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reader, megan melevolant  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 helloooo
i am also on the pill and have been for a a while now
you can wrisk it by letting him it is pretty harmless
the pill covers like 98% of it so yeah
but it is probably safer to get the moring after pill the day after or on the day
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Well it's not actually..because:
1.)you may get pregnant...you can get pregnant while on the pill.
2.)if you do let him finish inside of you..then make sure that you know that he is disease free...because nowadays...it is highly likely to catch STD's..because no one knows if they have them.
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