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writes:I've had sex countless times before with only one guy over the course of two years. This guy is now my ex; has been for over two months now. Anyways, I've been friends-with-benefits with another guy for two days now and earlier today, he told me he wants to wait until marriage for sex. I really like this and I definitely see myself being with him for a very long time in the future but it's his religious thing. I totally respect it and all, but I have sexual urges I need fulfilled! How do I go about doing that? I was thinking of investing in a vibrator or something but it would seriously be too embarrassing for me to walk into an adult store and buy one and I really don't want to use just my fingers. What should I do with this situation?
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 How are you friends with benefits if he wont have premarital sex? you need to respect his wishes and beliefs and either wait or maybe look into getting a toy for yourself online. Dont try to tempt and seduce him, that would be very disrespectful and mean. if you really like him then spend nice time with him and waitr for him and use your toy otherwise you need to set him free babe:) good luck to you!
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reader, Plexi +, writes (15 February 2009):
How are you friends with benefits if he wont have premarital sex? you need to respect his wishes and beliefs and either wait or maybe look into getting a toy for yourself online. Dont try to tempt and seduce him, that would be very disrespectful and mean. if you really like him then spend nice time with him and waitr for him and use your toy otherwise you need to set him free babe:) good luck to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, I've known the guy for like four years now! We actually dated for a few months back in sophomore year but things obviously didn't work out then. We're slowly easing ourselves into trying this relationship out again because we just seem much more compatible now. Neither of us are ready for marriage being that our ages are only 18 and 19, we just want to date each other but I'm not fully ready for that considering I just got out of a really bad relationship a little over two months ago. We're basically just making out every once in a while and hanging out and talking a LOT. But he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex and I do. That's my situation and I need help with it!Please...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): You're friends with "benefits", but you haven't had sex yet? You can see yourself with him in the future but you have only known him two days? You're horny but you can't see yourself using your fingers OR buying a vibrator?
If you want to have sex with him and he won't do it unless you are married, marry him. If you don't want to marry him, then leave. Simple!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): I remember saying that once to a girl. If he's really into you you can probably slowly get him to do a lot of things, probably everything except the actual penis in the vagina deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meant to say, "I really like this GUY." Sorry if I confuse anyone!
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