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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Now i been with this dude for about 4 months now. But before we were together he had a girlfriend for about 2 months. Now the problem that i'm having is that he claims he's over her and what not but he still calls her. Then on top of that his mom loves her because number one she introduced them to one another and then number 2 she's african. Now i'm jamaican/african-american, and the day before he had to come meet my parents he told his mom and she agreed that he had to meet my parents but he didn't tell her what i was and then the next day he told her what i was and she told him he couldn't come.The only thing thats keeping me with him is the fact that i love him so much. I have never been so connected to a man the way i'm connected to him. Now i know people say this alot but i really mean it this time. But this whole thing with this girl and his mom is bothering me. I'm so open right now and it would really kill me inside to get my heart broken again. Even in the begining i told him to choose what he wants and he chose me but later on in the relationship he was all ify cause she came to him saying she wants him back and he actually was thinking about leaving me more than once.A few weeks before valentine's day he was at my house and she called i had picked up the phone and he got upset and then after i told him who it was and why i was mad he told me he would stop calling her. now on v-day i was looking through his fone and he had called her right before he came to my house. So while i was there and i saw it he snatched the fone out my hand and then before i can get to pictures he started deleteing stuff. At first i was mad and he was like why are u mad and i didn't say anything after the 4 time he asked i told him i already talked to him about it once so he should kno and since he still didn't get it i was like f it. I told him like this, " i told you once and you did it again so f it i'm done talking". Cause how i see it is if i talk to him about it and he does it again that means he don't care.Please tell what i should do i need some options here lol..... Reply to this Question
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