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writes:Okay, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. Somebody told him some things and won't tell me what they said.. I don't know what it could be, so I'm not that worried about it but he hasn't talked to me in three days, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's been two weeks now and his relationship status on facebook is single.. He won't talk, when i ask if we're together he says yea but he won't talk. I'm thinking about breaking up.. but i really love him and don't want to lose him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Of course you should ask him!!! You have been with him for two years and you have to ask strangers whether you should question him when something was to cause him to not speak to you for three days???? I would be demanding an explanation! You deserve that! Communication is one of the most important ingredients in a healthy relationship! Something was said about you...you have a right to know!
I would be telling him to grow up and act like an adult! Where does his loyalty lie?
Who is he protecting? And why is he so quick to believe something about you. You say your not that worried, that you have nothing to hide. Someone may be trying to cause trouble between you, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW!!!!!!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Just try to get an open line of communication going, first. When he starts talking to you, then ask him why he has been distant lately and if you did anything to cause it.
You deserve to at least know if he is upset with you or not, and it would be very unfair of him to continue acting this way towards you without giving you a chance to clear up anything or defend yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): um... well talk to him - say we haven't spoken in three days whats up?
Star.x.
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