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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi,Mi name is Sadie. Six months ago I became a counsellor at a camp for kids. I met a boy named Adrian. At first I would pass him straight because I was not interested in him. I was never even aware of his presence in a room. Two weeks later, we had a hang-out session after a parents night at the camp. We were standing outside the hall talking generally. Adrian is a very loud, talkative out going person. So, of course, he was onr of the person's leading the conversation. He was trying to convince everyone to engage in soem socail drinking and some dirty dancing. I said no. Awhile later, during the general conversation, he came and stood between my friend and I. He put his arms around our shoulders. He was laughing and talking with everyone still. Then he asked which of the "sexy ladies" wanted to hang out with him. He looked straight down at me when he said this. I laughed and avoided answering the question because it made me uncomfortable. I went home before the after PARTY started. He stayed. I don't know what he did.During the two weeks that followed, Adrian would come and make conversation with. I would chat back with him politely. Then one day, another counsellor confessed that he liked one of the other female counsellors and had everyone talking about who liked who. There was a lot of he sadi/ she said. I heard Adrian say tha he had many casual affairs with previous counsellors ( he was a regular counsellor). This turned me off. But Adrian still persisted me. He would flirt with me and ask me questions about myself. After a while, I began to flirt back. We flirted for about a week. He was more persistent tha I was. Then he hooked up with another counsellor. They supposedly kissed and she came to work one day with his shirt. I did not ask him or her directly what happened so I don't know the facts. This turned me off even more. Adrian ended up leaving camp for awhile. He told me he was going to another country. But, i thik he lied. Communication cut off when he left. When he returnd I avoided him but he persisted. He then got frustrated and only bothered with polite conversation with me. A few days later, another male counsellor asked Adrian to pass on the message that he ( the other counsellor) liked me. While Adrian was doing he kept saying how much he didn't want to do this but Kevin (the other counsellor) is his friend. I told Adrian to tell Kevin that I did not like Kevin back. Adrian was nappy. I asked him why and he confessed that he liked me officially right there and then, H e asked if I liked him back and I said maybe but he could see that I did.After this he asked me if I would consider a relationship with him. I said I did not want to be in a relationship with anyone then. He seemed disappointed. Later that day we were sitting down chatting when he suddenly took my hand and began playing with my fingers. I played with his too for like literally 3 seconds then I pulled my hand away. The camp ended. We ezxchanged numbers but he never called. I was to afraid to call or text him.Now we only say hi and I want to tell him that I still like him but I don't know how.He also messed around with three other girls right in front of me. Why? Now he claims he likes my bstfriend.Is he trying to make me feel jealous? Or is it something else?
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 yea but let him go make him seem like ur not intrested,cuz he knows ur still intrested so his trying to get u uninterested because thats wat guys like.they like wat they cant have and he can have u in five seconds (if he asked u out right now u would say yes) he got u around his little finger..i think that u should be like "hey do u still talk to kevin" "if so can i have his number" get him wondering and get him to think about u at night,if u ask about kevin his feelings about u will come backk
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