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male
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18-21,
Obsolete
writes:My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and have gotten very comfortable with each other. There is a problem though with our sex lives; she is too loose. She was a virgin when I met her, and when she masturbated, to hit her g-spot she would use large toys. As long as 12 inches long and with a girth of 3 or maybe 4 inches diameter. I'm 6 and a half inches long, and a little bit wider than most stated averages. Now, genital-to-genital sex is in some ways depressing for us because she can't feel much since she is used to such large toys. While we can both "play" and reach orgasm, we can't do it genital-to-genital. I would like to be able to reach orgasm in her AND have her reach orgasm with me in her. Is there anything we can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): You're fully aware that a woman's inability to orgasm through intercourse alone has nothing to do with how "loose" or "tight" she is, right? MOST women cannot orgasm unless through clitoral stimulation. Maybe blame God for putting the clitoris where it is and not blame her vagina for being what it is ;)
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reader, rproctor + ♥, writes (5 May 2008):
Im not trying to question anything here... But I am not sure what kind of virgin would use such large toys? Are you sure there is not more to that? Be cautious.
Thanks
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female
reader, Kimaxsi +, writes (5 May 2008):
Yeah they do if you are consistent with them and she's young (if she's your age) she should be pretty dang elastic still, she should have good results. I had a 8 lb 9 oz rugrat in October and my husband says I feel just fine, he really can't tell much difference and I haven't noticed any difference in sensation from sex. Yoga does wonders for the Pelvic Floor too, I do that everyday. Just getting fit and strong will help. And lay off the huge toys lol If nothing helps maybe take a trip to gynecologist see what they say.
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reader, Obsolete +, writes (5 May 2008):
Obsolete is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, she's been using those toys since long before I knew her, which is why she was up to such large ones when we started dating. So I really don't know. But the kegel exercises do work?
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female
reader, Kimaxsi +, writes (5 May 2008):
Well does she still use these toys? If so maybe have her trade them in for a smaller model and get her to do her Kegal exercises, they'll tighten up the muscles down below
Refer to sitehttp://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html
I recently had a baby, a large one, and I am not like loose so these work. If it does not work after a while, give it some time, it may be she has a larger vaginal canal, men have different size penises women have different size vaginas. Has she always seemed loose ?
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