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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Just found out my bf masturbates daily when I'm asleep, but he always says he's not horny when I ask for sex. When I talked to him about it he just said he can't help it, he gets horny at about 2 or 3 in the morning and doesn't want to wake me (I need my sleep!)What can we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Just tell him your looking for a man not someone locked into adolecent behaviour. The guy has no self control, and if he has no self control, what happens if he gets attention from another woman?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (11 May 2008):
 It is normal to masturbate frequently - both men and women but usually its in addition to your sex life. It could be that because he is satisfying himself without you he just doesnt feel the need to make love with you too as he is already satisfied from the early hours of the morning. I agree - set your alarm clock and see what happens!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): How about he tries to let his horny moment pass one night and see whether he will be horny the next day! my answer is most probably! if hes not willing to try just that then im not sure whether this relationship will lead very far,compromise is everything. But talk to him. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Yeah I asked the same question about my husband a couple of days ago. I caught him in the act. What you decide to do about it all depends on how it made you feel. For me, it was a heavy thing, because even though I knew it was something a majority of guys do, I felt he was mentally cheating on me, looking at images of other girls while masterbating, and it hurt. Made me feel totally unattractive. Now that a few days have gone by, we opened some lines of communication that we avoided for a very long time, and we seemed to have a deeper understanding with eachother, sexually, emotionally, etc. Its important to let him know how you feel about it, while making him feel comfertable enough to talk to you about why he is doing it, and what could make him feel more ready for you during non-sleep hours. Communication is the key to a successfl relationship. If it dosnt bother you too much that he is doing it, and it's just the timing as far as his being "ready" that is bugging you out, maybe napping at a different time so you can be awake when he is at his peak could be the answer. Good luck.
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