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writes:Hello, I am 43 years old. Last year I had a massive stroke and have limited mobility though this is improving greatly. When I was discharged from hospital, my then partner and I moved into a bungalow. In May this tear I left him to move in with a man I have loved for 25 years since I was nineteen He lives in a house but I can now managw the stairs fine nd we plan to get married in the AutumnMy mother ansd Step Father hate him and are trying to insist that I leave him and go back to my ex and the bungalow my moter insists that my fiance cannot leave his gouse to me if he does his daughters will challenge the will and I will have nothing. What on earth do I do? I want to stay here where I am
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reader, jibbey  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 I would do what's best for you. Do what makes YOU happy. You do not need to fulfill their happiness to cause you unhappiness. Maybe they need to know why you are getting back with your ex so that they can understand your reasons for getting back together, or maybe they are looking out for you and know what you are passing up. As for the will, I would talk it through with your fiance because your mother could be wrong about that or there may be ways of getting around that obstacle.
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