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*ulie ann
writes:Carnal knowledge is one of our recreational activities. We're soo active when comes to this. my problem was, I can't feel if I'm coming or not. I just knew that I'm wet. In short, I'm not satisfied. Not with the performance of my boyfriend. He was really great! It was just that, I can't feel what they call "heaven" when it's busting. How will I satisfy my boyfriend as well? anyone, please help...thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, natasia  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Your G-spot is an advanced level of pleasure - what you need to find (and it's much easier to find!) is your clitoris!! (G-spot is inside you somewhere and basically it's the bit that when repeatedly rubbed (by, eg, yr boyrfriend's xxxx as he has sex with you) makes you start behaving like someone who has thrown caution to the wind ; ) ... but anyhow, G-spots are not the be all and end all, and they are not what you need to be worrying about when starting out.
I'll just summarise it for you, and forgive me if some of it you know already! OK:
Women can have two sorts of orgasms. Often you just have one or the other type at any one time, but sometimes you'll get lucky and have the two types at the same time : )
Type 1: clitoral
The clitoris is pretty easy to find as it is on the outside of you. If you feel around and press just above the vaginal opening, you should come across one little spot which feels particularly nice when you rub it. That's the clitoris. It's the equivalent of the most sensitive place on a man's xxxx.
If you keep rubbing it (even gently), and think about something exciting, you will sooner or later have a clitoral orgasm. It is quite intense and focused around the clitoris.
Type 2: vaginal
As it sounds, this is an orgasm that involves the vagina itself contracting. You achieve this kind of orgasm by deep or continued penetration of some sort. The vagina then contracts and it feels like a much deeper, more involved kind of sensation that the acute, focused clitoral one.
Best orgasm: rub your clitoris whilst pushing something into yr vagina ... ; )
Eg, have your boyfriend lie behind you while you're on your side. He can be inside you and at the same time you or him or both of you can also rub your clitoris. Trust me - if this is done long enough, even if very gently, it will give you a very nice orgasm.
Don't get too hung up on my definitions, but just remember that going slowly and gently, following your feelings and thinking nice thoughts will definitely get you there in the end : )
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reader, julie ann +, writes (27 August 2008):
julie ann is verified as being by the original poster of the question i tried masturbation. i cant locate my g-spot. and i'm too shy to tell my boyfriend about it. why i said he was great coz 12 rounds in a row, we made it! but that was the problem, i don't know how it feels like cumming huhuhu...
help guys...
thank you for the answers DoubleM, natasia and qcumbr. i'll explore more on my body... thank you, it really helps...
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reader, natasia +, writes (27 August 2008):
It sounds to me like you haven't had an orgasm. You would know if you had. Just being wet is only the start. Try it on your own, then you'll know what it feels like, and you can show him.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Getting "wet" during sexual activity is a good start, but most women require quite an bit more than that to experience orgasm. In my opinion, when you actually experience "cumming" you will certainly know it. Based on the very limited information that you provided, I suspect that your boyfriend is rather inexperienced and provides little foreplay. Although you claim that "he was really great" - I doubt it. If he is that great sexually, you would not be inquiring here. My recommendation would be for him to explore ways to satisfy women on this Web site by reading the fantastic archives using the search feature located at the top of each page.
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