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writes:Hey every1...so I kinda have a problem you see I met this guy 3 years ago n I didn't think we would be messin around for this much time but he really likes me and cares the thing is when I met him I told him I was 15 when really im 14 He was 17 at da time and now he thinks im 17 when really im 16 and now he's 20 he saiis when I finish high school this year he wants to marry me what if he finds out and doesn't want to be with me anymore should I tell him or just let the lie keep on....? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Come clean,its better than continuing to live a lie & it eating you up in inside.
isn’t it?
Lie’s always come out in the end & I’m sure it would be better hearing it from you than someone else.
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reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 I have the same problem as you, I told I guy I was the same age as him (a year older) and now have had to lie about my gcse results, seeing as I havnt got any! Im starting to like this guy and I never thought that it would come to this, it was a holiday fling nothing more. Or so I thought.
ANYWAY if your serious about each other you need to tell him. After all this time if he seriously loves you then you will be ok. Sure he may be a bit shocked at first but if he doesnt come round you will see hes not worth it. Anyway your at a legal age and in the long run does a year make much difference?? Sure at our age it seems too but now most married couples have a age gap of around six years. Like you marrying a primary school kid! Unthinkable it would seem now but in time it wont make a difference.
Just tell him you didnt realise it would get this serious but you realy like him and want to have a serious relationship with all honesty or something along those lines. Good luck! xx
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