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Not sure if I should date him or keep him as my best friend. Not sure I have a choise anymore either. Have I ruined it?

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Question - (26 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eff writes:

hiya thanks for reading

recently i asked about me and my best boy mate and have a ruined it for me and him since i told him i liked him because he was acting strange and more nice to me and the teasing had stopped and i got some good answers but things have now changed.

he is acting so much different towards me now and is being really flirty with me and everything.

we used to be really really good friends that could mess about he would tease me ect. now its like really more close if we spend the day together at then end we will hug for ages and we used to just quickly go see you later and now its getting really close.

and he always stares at me and the other day at a sleep over we all played dares and i had to get off with him and last time we got dared this we was both like no! but we did

and im so confused about whats going on and our feelings for each other.

because i do fancy him.

but in a way i want my bestfriend back and im not sure me and him going out is what i really want. and i think that is what he wants now.

do you think i should talk to him and ask him whats going on?

or shall i leave it and see what happens?

im sooooooo confused.

one day were bestfriends next were hugging and cuddling up watching films?

helppppp im so confused. whats going on!!

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A male reader, Neboraic United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

Honesty will make things easier. When you both know how each other feels you can decide what to do. This wont be easy for either of youbut big prizes come at the end of big challenges (your best friendship back)

Good luck and be brave

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