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writes:all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me but ever since then he doesnt spend anytime with me and all he does is go out and wont come home till late he never picks up my phone calls either...it really makes me upset because if he says everything is alright why cnt he stay home with me and not go out..could he be seeing some one else? Reply to this Question |
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reader, carol3232 +, writes (22 August 2008):
hey. Well why did he suspect that you were cheating on him in the first place? Sometimes when the other always accuses you of cheating and always has that in the back of thier mind is becuase they, theier self, are doing somthing wrong. But if he is not cheating on you maybe there is just somthing going on with him and you should try to talk to him about it. If he dosent want to talk about dont push it becuase it will just make him more fustrated and push him away from you even more.
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reader, JennayyyCx3 +, writes (21 August 2008):
 It's a possibility...have you talked to him about it? You cant keep these kind of things to yourself. I would say something along the lines of "It hurts me that whenever we get the chance to hang out you're always with someone else.. and i really miss you.. but i feel like its all me in the relationship like you could care less if we weren't together" Something like that??? Could you do that? Because its not gonna get better leavin it like that. He should want to spend time with his girlfriend, so something's not right.
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