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Did I go too far and say the wrong thing?

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Question - (27 November 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2015)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his question) then I felt a little playful so i was like, "Actually I got a couple of cute undies if those count. ?? lol jk ??" I told my bff about and she said I shouldnt have said it which got me worried. My crush and i havent gone out on a date or anything like that. We've just been talking over text for a lil over a month now. Was I too aggressive?? Did I sound like a slut?! Im 21, he's 19. What do u think he thinks of me now saying this??

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (28 November 2015):

Anonymous 123 agony auntYes, it wasn't the best thing to say. If I got a text like that from someone from the opposite sex when I don't know that person well enough, I would think that they're crossing a line.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (28 November 2015):

Honeypie agony auntEh, it might not have been the most "cool" think to say, but I wouldn't sweat it.

Did you sound like s slut? nah..

Relax. If he can't handle a little bit of a joke... then he isn't worth your time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2015):

Well, depending on the guy, he might try to get in your pants on your 1st date since you said that... But I wouldn't worry too much about what you texted him! If he's a nice guy then what you said is no big deal.

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