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30-35,
*andomando
writes:My ex girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. But she contacts me everyday. texts me or calls me. I dont answer. She broke up with me! Is this even normal? I thought when you break up with someone you dont talk to them and let the healing process begin. But I still like her I just dont want to be her friend I want to date her because I love her and she loves me. But she said we wouldnt get back toether and if she says that to me then i dont see a point to answer her. cause theres no hope right?. what should I do? I feel like shes telling me 1 thing but doing something completely different...I don't know what to do i have tried to talk to her and reason with her and get her to see if we can get through this but she doesnt want to. Sooo whys she contacting me? Should I leave me alone?Even though I like to get her calls or texts because it makes me think she is still thinking of me.. So what should I do in this situation?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 October 2011):
 IF you have asked her if there is a chance you can get back together as a couple and she has said no, then the only thing you can do is block her number and ignore her. Eventually, without any response from you she will stop.
Personally, for me if I broke up with someone I don't want to remain friends with them... it's too confusing but if I'm contacting them it's because I want to be in touch with them so to me it would appear she maybe is rethinking her breaking up with you...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 Hmm this is a tricky one. I guess she deep down knows that the relationship is not working for her, therefore she broke up with you, but off course she is still going to contact you, you where a big part of her life and it is hard just to cut someone out like that. But it is not fair on you, you are wanting to get over her am guessing. I am sure you are hurting. I guess you need to be honest with her and tell her you cannot be friends with her. Tell her you still love her and want to be with her but that you cannot be friends with her because it will hurt to much. Be honest with her. Good luck.
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