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Dating: Help and advice

After some time together, he won't give me any oral.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I've been with this guy for 1 and a half year now, the longest relationship so far, and I have noticed that his sexual habits have changed somehow during this meantime. In the begginigng, he used to give oral sex to me every single time we had ...

Things just seem to go weird every now and then

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1 May 2011 (F) - I'm slighty confused at the moment with my bf. We have been together for 4 months and things are going well,however sometimes things seem to be a bit weird between us. For example sometimes i get the impression hes a bit moody, on friday we had ...

Can he go to prison for being with me?

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1 May 2011 (F) - Im 15 years old and my boyfriends 20, we are in love no doubt about it, but can he go too prison for being with me?...

I put my feelings out there for this guy but all he did was smile!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - After two years of seeing this guy at the gym, 8 months ago he caught my eyes and 3 months ago we started talking. From getting to know him just a little, I find myself drawn to him. He's quite shy, very polite, well mannered, but from time to ...

The new guy? or the old guy?

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1 May 2011 (F) - am in a new relationship am not even sure wether i love this guy or if i want him or not ,, my ex-bf wants me back and he knew i told him that am in a relation-ship .. It`s been about a month since we broke-up ,, i still dont know what to do he ...

I run out of things to talk about!

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1 May 2011 (M) - I'm a relationship and l get out of words so l need help on what l can talk about when l'm with her to keep our relationship live....

I'm exhausted with the games, the lies and all of it!

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1 May 2011 (F) - I'm in a mess. First of all, I met this guy a week ago. I was out drinking, so theres my first mistake. My second mistake, I went home with him. I ended up spending some time with him and it turns I really like this guy. I spent the rest of the ...

B/f wants to know whats wrong with dating 5 years before we decide?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our mid 30's and have no children and been dating nearly two years. We live an hour and 10 mins drive apart and meet up mid week and week ends. He says because he doesn't earn much he can't afford to commute even further ...

Did I react with too much jealousy over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Did I over react? Last night my boyfriend of two months picked me and my best female friend up after an evening out clubbing. Me and my mate had both had quite a bit to drink. My boyfriend said he would drop us both home. He dropped me off fir...

I hate the revealing photos she has posted on facebook!

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1 May 2011 (?) - my girlfriend has some very revealing photos of her slef on facebook and almost none with me. i hate it and i have told her. she just keeps telling me im paranoid. but i am just looking out for her, i think, because you can get pervs on facebook. i ...

My boyfriend asked him to take me out! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I have a Very low self esteem. I had this boy friend for 3 months. Well 1 because he dumped me. Because he could no longer take me putting myself down. Well i met this guy. He was really sweet and geeky. He wanted to take me on my first date. My ...

Should I become a total jerk for my own advantage ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me three times and it's been one year since she dumped for the third time for small reason. I have heard that girls always find nice guys easy target to be dumped and retaken , is it true? If it's true, than why not should I ...

His ex wants him back! Why did he tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4751 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Hai. Ive met this guy online since then we have been texting alot and we are about to meet tomorrow. I love this guy very much even thou i havent met him yet, and he said he love me too so we decided to date online. We have been dating online for ...

How far can you go sexually with someone...without actually having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - so, my bf and i are doing wonderful together. and things have started to get a little physical. but the problem is, im not a virgin, and he is. and he says he plans on staying that way. i am completely fine with that, im actually kind of proud of ...

How can I deal with the past so I can love my current boyfriend?

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1 May 2011 (M) - In the first comment, I talked about an affair I had in South Africa. Now, let me talk about another person in this history: my present bf. He´s a wonderful person, we live in a very nice relationship, but in spite of this, I can´t forget the other ...

Should I be worried that my gf seems to have a guy she dated still on her mind?

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1 May 2011 (M) - I have been with my girl for almost a year now... We really love each other.. and are very secure that the other person wont leave us or cheat. She has a past, has been a wild girl and has dated many many people,and one of them--the one sh...

Should I tell my best friend I am in love with her, even though she is in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - i need some advice. i fell in love with my best friend. it's slowly progressed over the years i've known her. as we've grown closer and closer, my feelings have deepened and deepened. we don't have your typical relationship. we never have. acqu...

Should I still marry the man I love despite his family's antagonism toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Hi all reading this. I am a very strong individual and never imagined i would be even writing here to ask for help but im so much entangled in this situation i just do not know what to do. Please help me. We met over a matrimonial site and ...

Why do women need to constantly be in contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend wants some sort of daily contact, but me I'm fine if a go a week w/o so much as a text. Why do women seem to need to remain in constant contact?...

How do I deal with my sadness and frustration at still not being married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I envy my friends that are married. Well except for the ones that are in bad marriages. I dreamnt of getting married ever since I was a little girl. I have been engaged a couple times in the past but the relationships didn't last because those guys ...

Can two completely different people be in a happy relationship?

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1 May 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for about 2 months.He is into rock, heavy metal and I like pop.He likes to get drunk and smoke pot, and I'm just not into it.We have a good chemistry and we like to debate about our differences, but there are some things ...

What exactly is the nature of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - I was over her house recently to hang out with her brother. The first few hours that I was there, she kept looking at me the way she normally did. She also seemed hesitant around me like usual. When it was time for dinner, things became quite ...

I (male) had sex with my (female) friend's bf (male) and don't know if I should tell me friend or not!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - Me and my b/f started dating on phone and it took us about 3-4 months before we could see each other. It was a week after me and my b/f started dating that a friend of mine came to visit me and i told her about my new boyfriend and showed her all ...

Perfect Man... But Not Sexually Attracted To Him! HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Im 22 years old and Ive been dating this guy for around 3 weeks, and he is seriously the sweetest, affectionate, caring man i have ever met in my life. But the problem is im not sexually attracted to him. I do fancy him, i think he is hansom but the ...

How do boys act when jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - How do boys act when they get jealous? ...

I'm not sure what to do on a date

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1 May 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and I met this girl at a farewell party for one of my best friends. We started talking and practically didnt stop talking the entire night. We both have an interest in stuff like old time musicals and music. I really like her, and we kept ...

Guys, can you give examples of when you have made a significant change in order to keep your relationship?

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1 May 2011 (?) - This question is to the men out there who are, or have been, in a serious relationship. Can you share a story of when you have had to make a significant change in your life for the good of your relationship? Things like quitting a damaging habit, ...

No boys have any interest in me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I'm 13 and never had a boyfriend. All my friends have had atleast one and everyone says I'm not ugly and I'm interesting to talk to but no boy has seem to have any interest in me!! Is there something wrong with me??!!?? Help!!...

Do I end the relationship? He has made his ex pregnant. We had planned our wedding for the end of this year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I am in a dilemma,my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and now she is pregnant. The girl, my boyfriend's ex, will have the baby. This girl sent me an email detailing that my boyfriend is being horrible to her and that he doesn't ...

Is it okay to hangout with a guy I recently met and know is interested in me, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - The other day at work, I met a guy (not affiliated with my place of work) who seemed very friendly and genuinely nice (and cute, too!) After a little bit of talking, he asked me out on a date, to which I declined and stated that I had a boyfriend of ...

Does it become harder to find love beyond the ages of 40 and 50s?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - Hi all! I just turned 51 and its been six months since my last breakup with my girlfriend. It was hard for me to end that relationship because I feel like I am getting older and may not find love again. But that relationship had to be ended ...

I'm 17 and scared! Am I going to lose him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - ok so me and J are doing perfect in our relationship. but i am only 17 and he is only 16 and jus recently i found out i am pregnant... will our relationship go downhill? will he leave me for another girl again? will he continue to smoke weed even ...

I'm moving away for school! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I'm 23 and have just started an amazing new relationship. I've been dating this girl for almost two months now, and while I realize its still in the new honeymoon phase, I couldn't be happier. My only issue is, I'm moving in about 3 months, ...

Should I tell him I love him or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - So- I am in my early 20's and I was a single mother for over two years (during all of my pregnancy and till my son was about one and a half)... I met this amazing guy (who is almost a year youner than me) and we started a relationship. I soon ...

Do you ever get over your first love?

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1 May 2011 (F) - hi aunts and uncles. I would really appreciate some advice. I met my first love 4 years ago we started off as friends and at 16 we became a couple. It was intense and we saw each other every single day (not even an exaggeration) I was his first ...

More than friends, less than lovers.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Will taking a relationship slow really count in the end? Well, the guy I like and myself aren't even in a relationship. But, we know how we feel about each other. All our friends know how we feel for each other and encourage us to get into a relati...

I'm worried about being out of place in life!

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1 May 2011 (M) - I'm 25 years old and will be getting out of the active duty military next week and returning to civilian life. I'll still be serving part time with a reserve unit back home though. Thanks to the GI bill I'll be going back to school in the fall and ...