New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244976 questions, 1084353 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (37), 2 (51), 3 (38), 4 (17), 5 (28), 6 (34), 7 (27), 8 (29), 9 (30), 10 (23),
11 (32), 12 (29), 13 (30), 14 (29), 15 (15), 16 (23), 17 (24), 18 (36), 19 (29), 20 (28),
21 (36), 22 (32), 23 (24), 24 (29), 25 (33), 26 (30), 27 (21), 28 (24), 29 (32), 30 (25),
31 (27),

Archived questions from: 29 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from May, 2011)

Dating: Help and advice

Six months and still he's delaying making out. Should I continue? Why is he so reluctant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend an I have been going out for 6 months now. We have kissed before, but i really want to make out with him. I have dropped subtle hints and even plain out told him. He says he wants to also, but will not follow through. I keep thin...

How do I find out if there's a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-date-or-just-2-friends.html So I and my new friend went to that restaurant on Wednesday, before and after that he came to my place and we chatted for many hours and they were beautiful. I am ...

The guy I dated briefly said that I scared him with my questions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I dated this great guy for a month. He said on the third date that he like me very much, we also had such a great time togheter, lots of laugh,and a great chemistry. We were also very attracted to eachoter, even though we didnt have sex (he said it ...

What's the problem here: Her or Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I'm a guy, and there is a girl I met semi-recently and developed strong romantic feelings for. We've know each other about 4 mos, we've hung out, partied, we talk on Facebook, we text and we talk. She knows i like her as more than just a friend. She ...

I'm afraid he'll become more than friends with his childhood pal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 3 years, before our 2 years anniversary, a messed up situation occured between us and I know most relationships encounter this problem. It's not cheating, but we broke up and a friend of mine asked him to hang out ...

Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later ...

Have I blown my chances with the girl who liked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I've been flirting with a girl pretty heavily over the last three months online after we met in person through an extracurricular club at uni. She made is pretty clear she liked me a lot, and I hinted just as much back. I've never had a proper ...

I want to do something for him to show him how much I love and appreciate him...Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys - I need some ideas for something special I can do for my boyfriend. We're both sixteen and have been together a long while; we're happy I guess but recently it hasn't been quite so ... I dunno, nothing's wrong but I think we've been a bit ...

He lied to me in the beginning of our relationship and I still can't trust him 2 years later

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - My bf once messed me around a bit by meeting up with his [stunning] ex-girlfriend for coffee and lying to me about it, saying he hadn't. I also found pictures of her on his computer, saved after we had started dating. This was 2 years ago. We had a ...

He says he's not ready for a relationship, but wants to continue dating...I'm not sure I want to go along with this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi there.. i really need some of ur help pls..u see one of my guy friends asked me for a date..we have been friends for like a year. I went out with him just yesterday and this morning he talked to me and all..he also said that he didnt want to hide ...

Is it better that I am not with him anymore or should I try to get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy. He though seemed to hate himself quite a bit and was really down and depressed. He would tell me about how happy he was to be with me but it got scary because he kept putting me on this pedastal acting ...

Should I contact my ex-fiance?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

29 May 2011 (M) - My fiance broke up with me about a year ago, and just recently i just found out that she was asking about me, if i was dating or still single. I was shocked to hear about that because i never thought to hear from her again, but i can honestly say i ...

How long should I wait to start a new relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding ...

Am I being ignored? Why no messages back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Here's one of those typical, age old "Why isn't he contacting me back?!" scenarios. I went on a date last week. I felt it went super well. I had fun and was extremely attracted to my date. He seemed into me. So, the next afternoon, I dec...

Fat Admirers - Where are they? Do they exist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The idea of being in a relationship with a FA, or fat admirer, has always... intrigued me. I've met one in the past and ever since I've been incredibly interested in trying such a relationship out. I can't seem to find many more, which I'm assuming ...

Last night I lost my virginity to him. Now I'm jealous of his past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I'm 23 years old and lost my virginity to my 26 years old boyfriend of 7 months last night. He's my frist boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything, but I'm not his first. I'll start at the beginning because it will be a little easier to follo...

My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded ...

Last night I danced with a guy, I really like him... but I've got a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need some advice for this problem. Ok so i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months now. Hes a great guy, whose sweet and funny and cute.(IRONIC i had ended with my ex to go with him, because my ex was being a jerk) However ...

Staying true to myself doesn't make me cool, and if you're not cool do you stand a chance with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I have been trying to change who I am for the past two years, and it has not worked. If I'm honest, I've never been "cool", I've always been slightly kooky and individual. That all changed when I got jealous of my peers in relationships an...

If a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - This might seem like a funny question but if a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?. This guy gave me his number a few days ago, and i got intouch with him, and he replied to my ...

Is it asking too much to want to be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Hi. I think I need some help. I'm a lonely 24 year old guy. I have a few close friends but thats about it. I want someone to love me though. I was with someone 8 years ago, but after that ended i haven't been with anyone. I have fema...

Guys: How experienced do you like your girl to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So here's a question to the guys out here. Do you like the girl to just lay there during the first times you have sex with her so that you can feel more confident, do you like that she takes some initiative (like?) or do you just want t...

I don't know if she felt my erection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Ok so me and my gf we kinda cuddling one day on the couch. I kissed her and after, her hand brushed up against my erection. She didn't seem to notice or nothing. And after she said she was completely comfortable and didnt mention it. Do you think ...

How can I learn how to kiss, especially how to neck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I am not a good kisser. I admit that. I don't really know what I am doing. Women I have been with have either told me that outright or in indirect fashion by saying things like "I felt you were pulling away" or "I felt you just gave me a half-kis...

He's not asking me out...should I wait or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy who works at my local supermarket on MSN for about two months, but I've never actually met him. About a month after we started talking, I mentioned this other guy, and he started arguing with me, telling me I'd found ...

Did I get carried away flirting, at the bar? Not sure if I liked what I did! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The fact that i'm asking this straight after getting back from a night out just shows how concerned i am about the person i'm becoming. Tonight i went out and was stupid and the type of girl i'm normally not.. I went to this bar/club and i f...

Getting the place I deserve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have very busy lives so we dont have time to see eachother a lot he used to be in an open relationship and he also dosent seem to put me in his priority list or at least not as high as i should be; how can i make him give me the ...

She has this annoying, troubling side to her personality...what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I have been with this woman for over a year now, and I am truly starting to get annoyed to say the least. When I first got with her, she seemed to be what I was always searching for, but I noticed some early mood swings and dismissed them. She ...

Does my friend like me? I can't tell what he's thinking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about 2-3 yrs. Hes my best friend's friend. Ive only hung with him at my friends house. Recently my best friend got married and his friend "Matt" was there. We sat at the same table and even though we've hung out before i ...

What is the difference in these terms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - What is the difference between these terms or states of a relationship in the American (or Western) culture? * Friendship * Dating * Relationship * Boyfriend/girlfriend Thanks...

He's trying to cope with our break up..how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Okay I'm gonna try to keep things simple here...Ive liked this guy since 4th grade..and in 8th grade I finally got him. Things were going well for a middle school relationship I guess until a high school boy started liking me..so of course I chose ...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...