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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Asked her out and now having second thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - So I have liked this girl for about 2 weeks. She is pretty and we are good friends. I found out from a friend that she had liked me and so I asked her out today and she said yes. The only problem is that I am starting to get the feeling like "omg ...

I'm in love with a girl who every other guy has made love to! How can I get over her past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, but we've had a thing for a year. Only problem is now that I'm with her, all I can think about is how she hurt me countless times before we officially started dating and how much it hurts to feel so ...

Why would a 48 year old man be interested in an 18 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Why would a 48 year old posh guy be sexually interested an 18 year old working class girl??? ...

How can I make him listen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...

City girl falling for a country boy, does he like me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I just need some clarity without judgment, please! I've known this guy for about five years and over the last couple of years, we've been hanging out a lot. NOT dating; just hanging out and being great friends. Now, I've always been into British ...

I can't tell if my boss likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I can't tell if my boss likes me or not. Sometimes he'll stare into my eyes and hold long contact (I usually break). He stands very close to me, but I notice he stands close to others at work but maybe a little closer to me. He's very helpful (I ...

What can I do to win this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - This is long, but I hope I've made it easy to read! As I sit here typing away, I am crying; crying as so many do, over that one person who is more special to me than life itself. I know my problem is a common one, and doubtless one that is neve...

What's a good size diamond for an engagement ring?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - What is a nice size solitaire diamond for an engagement ring to a tall, slender lady who has a ring size of 5.5? I am looking at just over 1 carat. The quality is impeccable, so I'm not looking for comments on clarity and color...just size. I kn...

I still love her, is it possible we might get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I need help deciding what to do about my ex-girlfriend, whom I still love and want back very badly. We dated for about 15 months and everything was great. Then she started feeling overwhelmed by the thought that we might be together forever and ...

I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I ...

My boyfriend spends a lot of time with a woman in her 60's. I think he should spend more time with me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Can someone help me with this question? I don't know of anybody being in this situation ever. My boyfriend of nearly 7 months chooses to spend his time with a lady in her 60's rather than with me. He goes to her house every night and through ...

How do I get my unambitious too laid back boyfriend to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I have this live in boyfriend. We have been together for 17 yrs. He's a caring guy but he doesn't want to hardly work. I care about him and I was so in love with him when I first met him.... But he just don't have drive to want anything in life...

He will not share the computer fairly. How do I get almost equal time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - My boy friend and I share the Internet. He lives in our home as his Dad is away working where he can get work, and his mother left them a long time ago. We both paid for it, but he did put in a little more for the computer as he wanted a better ...

Can I have some ideas on how to stand up to him please? he bosses me around all the time. Everything is his way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Is it normal when you are in a relationship for the guy to make all the decisions? If we want to choose a video it ends up not being we. It becomes him. I wanted to watch film that his sister said was really cool about a fashion designer called coco ...

How do I stop myself getting so attached to guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Hi there, agony aunts. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on avoiding getting attached to guys. I am recently out of a long term relationship and very much playing the single card, but every time I get with somebody, for example, making ou...

How do I get girls to notice me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I don't really have any friends, and I want to know how can I make friends, and get girls to like me. Throughout life, I haven't been good at this at all. I don't go to regular school, I attend cyber school. I realized that by attending cyber ...

Suggestions needed please on how to cope with his ex's and still be friends with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Hey so this isn't a huge problem but my boyfriend is still friends with a couple of his exes from high school. We have been out of high school for 4 years and none of their relationships were very long. But he wants us to all hang out together. I ...

Will I lose him it he continues to text his ex? It really upsets me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I have a problem with this girl texting my boyfriend and would really appreciate some advice on how to control my emotions over it. My boyfriends been with me for 8 months and things are okay. The only time we argue is over this girl. She's...

Our relationship ended. but now I want to talk. How do I open negotiations to re-start our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I want to be happy. Im going to be happy with my boyfriend, we're going to be happy. And we're going to shut everybody else out. But right now, i need help, okay he's called all that day when i ended it. And now today's the second day and no call...

My boyfriend and I got selected to same college, but he doesn't want to come along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - me and my bf love each other like mad.we are in a ldr since two years. recently we gave entrance exams and i and my bf got selected to the same college. but my bf doesnt want to come.he said he will drop this year and will try for some better...

I don't know why I cheated in the first place...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid ok ive been with my boyfriend for 5 monthes and im completly in love with him he treats me right! he knows when im happy and sad and he doesnt even have to look at me we can be talking on the phone he knows exactly how to make me happy ...

I have nice guy syndrome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - I'm a freshman in highschool and as you would assume, I have a huge crush on a particular girl. She's really nice and we've been good friends for a long time now but it's only recently that I decided to confess my feelings to her (via text... if ...

I did something I regret... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I did something that I really regret on web-cam a few months ago. It was with my internet boyfriend. I still can't believe I did that. Now that we've already broke up, all I can feel is regret. I'm still a virgin, never been a real relationship, ...

How can I feel better about my appearance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - So I was recently talking to my boyfriend and I mentioned that I don't like myself and feel fat. He then gave me a big speech about how much he loves me and that I look beautiful and attractive, even though I am overweight(though not obese, I'm 5'2" ...

I'm not sure if I love him for the right reasons. Should I marry him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Here's the thing... my fiance and I have been together for a year and a half, and have lived together for a year. We are planning on getting married in October on our 2 year anniversary. But... I have many doubts about marrying him. It's not wedding ...

I can't trust my crush...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - So this story has four main people. My Crush "Al" The Evil Girl "EG" My crush's and my mutual friend "Pete" and me I have like Al for a long time. I was kind of starting to think that he liked me too. EG also likes him and figure...

I need help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I need some help and this is my last resort. I'm 14 years old, and well things have been building up in my head for a long time and now its starting to come out. My whole life people have made me feel like scum people who clamied to be my frien...

I'm ready now, but he isn't. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We are very close and care so much for each other. It's like having a best friend and a boyfriend in one, and I'm really happy, but I'm getting a little frustrated with the fact that we aren't having ...

Please give me suggesstion what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - i am female of age 20. i am in love with man who is married and has three kids. he love me first and put proposals. i refused and said its not good. then he said me he cannot live without me. he will die, but still he says me he wants his family as ...

I thought we were a long term couple, but now I'm not sure what to think...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid: I feel like my boyfriend is getting distant from me and i don't know why. i thought everthing was going good, he hardly calls me or text's. i'm the one that calls him to see how his day went. I love this person i waited a long time t...