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Archived questions from: 25 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why do so many people try to push you to get out and look for girls just to hook up with and have meaningless sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - My friends are the type who are confident with girls who can chat to them no problem and don't mind meeting up with them with only one goal in mind. The problem is, that's not me at all....I struggle so much with girls as I'm not super confident,...

How can I convince her I'm not too young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - I'm 17 nearly 18, and about 3 months ago I met a girl who is amazing, she looks young for her age so I thought she was about 19 but she is 23 which doesn't bother me but she says i'm too young. The frustrating thing is that I know she likes me and I ...

This girl doesn't seem to realize what she did to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Hey Guys, Feeling so stressed out at the minute, I have an unrequited love and not much else going for me at the moment either. I've always been shy with girls in the past, but managed to have a little fun with a girl that I was friends with, ...

Can a woman give herself completely to a new love, despite having had many lovers in her past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - I am 31 years old and dating this girl (27 3rd year surgical residency) which I absolutely love we are both very sexual beings. The problem is that we have different views on sexuality, even though she says that we don't. I have only had one sexual ...

With 2 weeks left of Senior year should I finally make a move or just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - So there’s this guy who has liked during High school and possibly middle school too, the typical staring, trying to walk close by me in the hall and hair fixing. He’d always been someone I was attracted to but somehow we were friends with the others ...

I cannot seem to win, there always seems to be something she wants to have a go at me about!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend has been having a go at me alot recently sometimes it's very small things, sometimes not so much. But when she realises that she's wrong about something, or that she took something the wrong way, or she overreacted about ...

I love this girl but she said 'no' when I asked to be her best friend. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - CAN YOU HELP ME?? I loved a girl she also going to be 15. i loved her more then 5 years but when i told her after 4 years she told me that she had a boy friend so i left her but everytime she looks at me she kills my heart. because i think ...

Jealous of my boyfriend's ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I have been with a guy for nine months and i am i am jealous of his past reationships. He is really faithful and i have no reason to be jealous. But i feel inferior. His exes were all good looking and all. He has always told me that i am the only ...

I overheard my BF telling his cousin he doesn't really love me. Now I'm not sure how much to trust him or how to feel when he says anything to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we were old friends along time ago and when we ran into each other, we got along great! We have a great time together. He has always been very independant and has never "needed" a women and when we ...

My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left h...

My girlfriend "needs her space" and doesn't know if she wants to be with me or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hi so my girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and she does not know if she wants to be my girlfriend at the moment. She says she needs her space and she is in school as well which stresses her out completely. Well about a month ago we ...

I'm afraid to tell him what I want, because I know he won't approve.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year and 3 months. i love this boy with out question. I want to go with my aunt this summer and see family and friends i havent seen in a long time But he doesn't want me to. ???...

I'm 32 years old... and I've never had a serious boyfriend or even slept with someone!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I could be wrong about this, but most people believe that if someone is in a relationship, then that's it, you can NEVER have a chance with that person. The trouble is, I'm 32 years old now... and I've never had a serious boyfriend or even slept wi...

I thought I could deal with the break-up, but knowing now that my BF is moving on and I'm not, is killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - hey, me and my ex bf split up about 3 weeks ago, although i wasnt full over him i was getting there, but then today he came to pick up some of his things, as he finished me over text, we was talking about it, as i just wanted to know answers. he ...

Do you think it is okay to have a relationship with the ex-husband of my ex-husband’s wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - me and my ex husband have been divorced for almost 11 years now and have a 14 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. he is now re-married and has been for about 4 years or so. his new wife had also been divorced for a while and has a son with her ex ...

Can a narcissist and a co-dependent person have a relationship that works?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Hi. I am a co-dependent person. For those who do not know what this is, it is a person who feels the need to please other people in order to get his own validation. I have had treatment for this but still ahve strong codependent tendencies. Last...

He's a lovely guy but his clothes are not stylish and he smokes. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Ok, i feel quite bad asking this because its all common sense but we all have preferences. I met this guy last weekend, I wasnt even meant to be going out, I was just meeting my sister in the pub for a few. Her boyfriend was in there watching t...

How should I approach the topic of dating with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

25 May 2011 (?) - I really like this girl and I've been talking to her (on fb) recently and every time I speak to her I like her even more. I really want to ask her out but I'm too shy and half of the things she says I don't even understand. She uses language th...

Could there be any tips or advice on how to get over my guy making out with a girl last summer on top of a dumpster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - So I am finally with the man of my dreams... We have had our ups and downs... good times and bad times.. and yet, we always managed to work things out, through communication, open mind and trust for one another. He's the first man in my life that I ...

Should I try to get things going again or just try to get over this girl I like so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - i was talking to this girl and we had a thing going on. We met up one day and shared a day and we kissed. After a couple days things started to change and did not feel the same. I was going to ask her out the day after that, but then she couldn't...

He loves me. He loves me not? why is he confusing me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I am really confused and i dont know what to do! It 's about my ex and I. He told me he loved me and would never let me go and we dated for a while. Then he told me that he wasnt the one for me but the one who is, will be a very lucky man, and brok...

He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a ...

Is this insecure man testing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Would an insecure man who constantly tests you go as far to tell you he is engaged and going to get married just to see your reaction? And would he then have a problem if you just replied and said she is a lucky girl and i hope it all works out for ...

How do I let him know nicely that I am not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - this is kind of a variation on the how to let him down easy question. he's a guy i work with (which makes it even more awkward), but the problem i have is that it's really obvious that he likes me (texts regularly, buys me coffee, always suggestin...

My ex-fiancée, who I still have feelings for, has been asking about me again. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - well it has been a year in a few days that i have not been with my ex-fiance, i was starting to get use of my life without her but all of a sudden i hear that she has been asking about me again. Also just yesterday my sister calls me and tells me ...

I made a special effort to be with my girlfriend, and twice in one day she said she preferred to hang out some other time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - ok so me and my girlfriend dont have as much time to spend together as we like because we dont live together yet, but we see each other as much as possible. But my girlfriend recently took an extra shift at work on one of the few times we had to ...

Should I continue trying to be his friend? Also admit I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Sorry this is a bit complicated: Back in January I met a guy through a friend,Lora, I didn't think much of him at first but then really got interested. We flirted for about two months before our first date; he took me out on my birthday while m...

I've never dated anyone who looks like him before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing. His personality is everything I've ever wished for, and he's tall and decent looking. Despite that, I usually don't fall for guys that look like him: mature with heavy features. I usually fall for cute guys with soft ...

Dating is frying my brain and I am becoming obsessive and stupid! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys. So, I'm sure this is going to be a bit redundant, as I'm sure others have asked similar questions in the past, but I really am confused and am curious as to what people think about my situation in particular. This is a book, unfortunately. ...

Hot when I don't see him ...

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25 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, when I'm not with him I miss him soo much but when I see him it's not the same thing. I dnt get as exited. What's wrong with me ? Sometime I do get exices to see him but no always.. Help me ...

Was his non-reply a sign to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Okay I like this guy, but he doesn't know me. He actually knows my sister's boyfriend. While we was texting he asked to see a picture. I sent the cutest picture in my phone. I'm really not ugly okay. So he said he couldn't see my face I was told to ...

Is it wise to give a girl the cold shoulder to see if she likes you at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - There's this girl at work that I really like (but I can't ask her out cause she holds a higher position than me *this is retail* it would only work if she asked me out.)I'm getting mixed signals from her, some days she's really into me and others ...

Should I be me or the dancer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I am an ex dancer so used to have a good body and be considered attractive. I got treated really badly by an ex boyfriend who I lived with for 2 years, he cheated on me with about 8 of my friends and ended up becoming violent. My self esteem ...