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Archived questions from: 26 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We don't see each other much, he hates to text, but when we're together, it's great! What to do...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - okay so this guy i have been dating for just about two weeks tomorrow (i know not a long time) but usually for me it's really easy for me to be with any guy. But this guys is so difficult! I don't get to see him everyday, I see him at church on ...

Am I just a thing for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - hello aunts... me and my boyfriend , though we were never ever in a relation but always behaved so speaking on hours on phone or texting each other or chatting online but after an year i asked him out but he said he was already in a relation and w...

How do I deal with being unable to see my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - i haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 months because he fell out with his family and went to other relatives for a while. we called each other every day and i think it was ok but now hes moved closer to his aunty's and he has to go on a police tag ...

Why did my friend go ballistic on me after we slept together and I asked if we could more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I slept with my very close friend of 7 years, and wondered if it was a start point to go further. I got the courage to ask and was expecting a sad no, hoping for an excited yes. I wasn't expecting the complete embarrassing rejection that i...

How can I make boyfriend feel more positive before he loses all motivation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - My bf has this job which is pretty intense and the training is very hard. He is struggling and doubts he will pass his exams. I've done the standard "you'll be fine" prep talk, but it doesn't wash. What can I do to make him feel more positive? I ...

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want ...

Wasting my time on another dead end relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been seeing this guy for nearly 4 months now. I really like him. He lives about 40 mins away from me and I don't drive and have a little girl of 4, so most of the time he travels to me. He was really keen to start, he has asked me for e...

I don't think she likes me as much as she likes him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally ...

I'm paranoid because he turns round suddenly at a short skirt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I nudged my boyfriend for looking round quickly at a very pretty woman in a short skirt. I notice he looks round at blonde women in short skirts a lot and its embarrassing. I'm slim.and attractive and not insecure but every time I gently nudge him ...

Guys: Would you take her number and text her if you weren't interested or attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Random question. Guys if you met a girl at a party but she left early and you didn't see her go. However, your friend told you she liked you and gave him her number to give to you. Would you take it and text her if you weren't interested, or ...

Do you think it would be ok for me to meet up with him, even though I don't know what is happening with the other guy yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I was seeing a guy recently, but i'm not sure what is going on with us at the moment. We have only been on a few dates, so i'm not sure that you could say that we are in a relationship yet, but neither of us has said that we ...

I want a relationship with a celeb but the past won't allow me to be positive and have trust!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this local celebrity. At first he said that he does not want a relationship because he is too busy but he visits when he has time. With my experience in the past I can never keep a relationship going for long,too many guys has taken me ...

Guys, do you follow the 3-day rule or the one week rule when asking a girl out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - guys, how long do you usually wait to ask a girl out on the first date after you've gotten her number? i recently met a guy and we clicked really well, good conversation, flirting and all. when i got home i got a msg from him saying he would think ...

I've been focusing on her friend but do you think it's possible she likes me, even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - ive got this friend whos a girl and she is really pretty. i have really liked her in the past. she went out with this guy who was a rubbish bf cause they went a full 5 days not even speaking or seeing and he has got a new gf after about a week after ...

How do I stop my compulsion to try to fix things for my boyfriend?

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26 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some words of wisdom to help me change my pattern of behaviour in my relationship...if my bf seems down or has worries about work, etc, I always feel I need to cheer him up, and get really sad when I can't. I know these problems are ...

Attached men visiting strip clubs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with a man who use to visit strip clubs when he was single!!My boyfriend was a strip club visitor when he was single. He tries explaining to me that he feels those were better places to hang out, have a beer and relax, than a normal bar. ...

Is there anything I can do to have my g/f want anal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend since one year ago has had very many sexual partners and she is only 19 years old. (i am 20) People always say that it is a good thing because she is very sexual if she has been sleeping around, but she isnt. She only did it because ...

So why haven't I met someone who seems like a good match?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - So I'm 27, almost 28, and I've never had a real serious relationship. It frightens me, because I feel like there's something wrong with me! I date guys, but they never seem to stick around long (I'm not clingy, I'm actually pretty cool and funn...

I really like both these guys. My ex is now ignoring me. I need some clarity please? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. I will call him Y. And I really like my my ex, who im still in love with. I will call him X So X and i broke up in june last year...8 months later after a different girlfriend, he came back begging for me to take him back tha...

Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...

I'm not asking you to choose for me between these girls, I just would like to know what I should be asking or thinking about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - okay so I really like these two girls both have great personalities and both seem to like me so here is a little info about them. girl 1: we've know each other for 2-3 years. i asked her out when we first met and she said she wasent intereste...

How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with ...

Should I be worried that his female friend will eventually replace me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about a year now. I love my boyfriend very much and he's told me the same. But sometimes I get the feeling he doesn't like what we have. He has a friend he always sees and they've known each other for a long time. ...

Should I wait any longer for him to contact me or is he not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl who just moved from the UK to Canada on my own, and I recently met a very lovely guy after a friend took me to watch a few local baseball games (he's on the team). About a week ago all of us went out to a bar, I caught hi...

He's is acting crazy after he went though a breakup! How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - So I have this friend..I dated him about 2 years ago..he just recently went through a bad bad break up and is being really rude and just crazy.. It's scaring me..I like him a lot..and I wanna help him but he's going crazy..like calling his ex a ...

Am I being paranoid about money, or is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - help iv been dating dis guy for the last 6 months..i told him right in the beginning that i wanted to split everything 50/50. he seemed happy about it..but i realized now that i'm slowly ending up being the one that pays most of the bills......

I think the girl I like is over me. How can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - well im starting to to think the girl i like is over me. we use to have a thing but now things have changed and she barely talks to me anymore. i really like her but idk how to get over her. any suggestions please? i mean i wanted to ...

I am lazy when it comes to relationships now because I had a bad breakup. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I went through a bad breakup because of my infidelity...I made mistakes and ultimately paid for it by losing someone I loved...she started dating a guy immediately after breaking up with me. I had a long recovery period from this and can finally ...

I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able ...

I'm not happy single but I don't trust women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - This isn't really relationship advise i'm seeking, more advice in general. and has spurred from relationships. I was in a relationship for two and a half years. i was absolutely obsessed with her. but now i realise she wasn't good for me, she undo...