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Dating: Help and advice

Is it possible to just stop the sex with this married guy but keep the friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I need some advice here...I met this married guy at work about a year ago. We both liked each other and became friends. We finally crossed the line about 3 months ago and we both knew it would happen. He has a baby with his wife but he ...

Iv been stuck in a rut all my life with disgusting boyfriends. How do I get out of this and what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance for how ridiculously long this is. It's an all around vent/question thing and I'd really like some sound advice from anyone who has either gone through this and knows how to get out or would just like to help. Thanks... My f...

Our relationship is getting rocky. Can I fix it? he's acting like a jerk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I am feeling really unloved by my boyfriend of two years. At first we were really close, and did a lot of things together and we're inseperable. He said and did all the right things. But lately, it's just been a rocky road and I mean rocky. He a...

He will not talk to me do I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - dear helpful people :) this is a long story, im confused where i stand. i met this guy at a club, and we got on really well. we agreed to go to the next one a week later and we just wandered outside for most of the night and talked endlessly. ...

Would a guy act this way if he wasn't interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Random pretty quick question to answer. The other night i was out and met this guy and it was evident he was drunk. But other than the friends he was there with, I was the only girl he talked to! When we were sitting down he had his arm around me, ...

I've been told I'm fussy, is that why I can't seem to get into dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I need help understanding men. Recently I met a guy went on one date and realised it wasn't going to work and we weren't that compatible. So when he texts asking if I want to meet up again I say no because I'm busy and moving in a few months (which ...

What do you think about open relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hello there, I would just like to ask people what they think of open relationships.. Do they really ever work? Interested to hear about experiences and or opinions of any type of open relationship. Are there certain conditions under which they wor...

My best friend is blowing me off for a guy I hate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

21 May 2011 (?) - My best friend is dating the one person I DETESTE and I'm cool with that but she keeps using the same excuse every time I ask her to go somewhere 'oh I'm ill' or 'I had a bad night's sleep' and really all she's doing is blowing me off so she can go ...

Heatbroken! I broke up with him. He came back and broke up with me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, can i pls ask for your crucial advice.. I met a local guy who was chasing me on facebook over xmas. After around a month of talking we met up. We knew we liked each other. We continue to date. On our second date we became intimate....

! still love him..how do I tell him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - me an my ex have finally got talking after a couple of months of awkwardness i still love him and have missed him alot since we broke up. i dont know whether i should tell him or not? and if i do what words should i used and what do i say ? plea...

Why is he rubbing my nose in this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - im close friends with a guy who i adore. ive been a great friend to him and the other night we were talking and i got onto the subject of dating. he said in order for him to date me he would have to feel chemistry. i was shocked as we've been pra...

Does the guy.. with plans and direction in his life... like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4698 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm in my first year at university and am wondering if the guy that I like likes me. We are both studying music but he is older so I usually only see him in one class plus at our concerts twice weekly. One of my good friends sees ...

How can I practice giving more affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - Hello. I'm in a relationship with a girl, it all seems to go really well and I love her more than anyone. But the thing is, when we're hanging out and stuff I often feel like she wants to be touched. I don't mean grabbing her butts/breasts/whatever, ...

We have trouble agreeing on things, how can I make my boyfriend happy?

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21 May 2011 (F) - Please help me! I love my boyfriend so much and I don't want to fight with him, on every topic we've had a fight I don't know why it is so. @hat should I do to make my boyfriend happy? ...

Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I volunteered about 2 weeks ago at a pound, and met a guy looking for a dog who went to the same college as me. Then by chance the next day we were in contact on the student forum......which led to exchanging numbers and having coffee together. At ...

He has cooled off a little, should I bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - If you've been dating someone for a little over a month, and you've noticed they've sort of cooled off (not sending sweet little text here and there, not as passionately kissing, less "rapturous) - would you just give them space to figure things out ...

He knows I have feelings for him and he keeps bringing up things about this other girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I really don't know what to do! I'm in despair writing this. I'm close friends with a guy and have been a brilliant friend to him. I really like him and he knows this. We spoke about dating and he said he didn't have that chemistry with me but ...

Am I being irrational?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - Do good guys get what they deserve? I don't really understand why girls at my age do not appreciate the things that good guys done for them and in my case she thinks I am obsessed with her. I love her but not obsessed with her. Sometimes is rea...

Did she blow me off or do I still have a chance later on when she's not busy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - question, so I asked out a female friend of mine that I've had a crush on for a few months. I asked her even though I knew she was working and volunteering this weekend, I just did it anyway. I think subconsciously I just wanted to throw the idea ...

When a guy calls you beautiful is he flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Sorry for it being long but i really need some help thank you. When guy friends says your beutifull is it flirting? They know i have a boyfriend who iv been with over a year but they comment on my looks alot and say good night beutifull at first i ...

I like two girls and I can't choose between them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - just want to say sorry if i drag on a bit but im desperate. i like two girls and can't choose between them. i see one every morning just about cause she passes me on her bus and we both smile and wave. we also talk on facebook and im always please...

I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do. I have a girlfriend and we have been together since our teens and have known each other since we were born practically. Although we have been together for so long our ...

My girlfriend is going abroad for a week with her girlfriends and I'm worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend in a relation ship for 3months, i know its not much but before we use to be with each other as dating and we know each other for 4 years. i love her alot and i really want her to be happy and so on. right now she...

Should I try to fix things up with my ex or stay with my new guy? Both LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4478 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - I'm 20 years old, and I've only been in one relationship. I was with a beautiful kind boy named Y. We met online, and we were long distance. It was very difficult, but it got even more tough with my first year of college. I was busy living the mome...

My receptionist gf adds guests on her personal facebook account! Am I right to be angry??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend work as a receptionist in a hotel and she really loves her job. i work in the same place as a security guard (that's were we met) we trust and love each other and she shows me everyday and i really love her and trust her too.. we've ...

She cheated, I forgave her, but I still hurt inside. Will this ever go away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - My girlfriend and i have been together for two years. We've been through a lot together and i love her very much. Our relationship is far from perfect, but we work very hard on our flaws together. One thing, though, that's really difficult for me, ...

Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the ...

I had sex with my ex-bf and am now confused as to what he wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating for a year and we recently broke up for good and I still love him. We broke up because we were both stressing about things and decided to take a break. The reason we never got back together is because ...

I am torn between two guys and don't know whom to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I have a bf for the last 1 year. I fall in love with him for his good nature. So i only proposed him. Everythng went well for 1 month. After that, he started ignoring me. Situation became so worse that he even didn't talk to me. I was so depressed ...

What is the difference between "cute", "pretty" and "beautiful"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend said I wasn't considered pretty or beautiful but cute, and he said that he would prefer cute over anything else. I saw something on the internet about cute vs pretty vs beautiful and hot. I can't find it anywhere; can someone help me ...

My gf is ignoring me ever since she did bad on her exam. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend's examination went bad. ever since then, she's been avoiding me (2 days). someone tell me what to do? if it isn't my fault, why is she ignoring me? i tried to cheer her up, but to no use. what shall i do ?...

Is it okay to switch back and forth between anal and vaginal sex during intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Is it okay or not to switch back and forth between anal and vagina (in same session) when having sex? My boyfriend and I love anal sex but sometimes like to go back and forth from anal to vagina and back to anal when we really get heated, but not ...

Bf asked me to get kinky in bed...but I don't know how! Help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I'm trying keep my boyfriend interested in bed. He's asked me to act like a slut in bed but I don't know how or what to do. How do I act slutty? kinky?...in bed. Help me please!...

Girlfriend breaks up with me, then says she misses me. What does she want???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - Ok I'm in need of help... Heres the long story short. I was with my girl friend for about a year. She is two years older then me and she and I have both been thru a lot in past relationships. She and I both agree that what we shared together was ...

Dad is sick, boss is angry at me, bf is neglecting me. How do I go on????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi I hope you can help me as I really don't feel I can go on anymore. Last week my dad had a huge heart attack, we were told to say our goodbyes to him but fortunately he recovered but needs to have a triple heart bypass. I am emotionally and ...

Could I wait till my exams are over and then ask teacher if she'd want to be in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I'm a 18 year old female, i'm about to leave school for good, just have my exams to complete. I've developed a strong attraction towards my female teacher. She is 30 years old, and i sometimes do think she has feelings for me too. She hasn't acted ...