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Dating: Help and advice

I wat to ask him out but don't know what to do on a date!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Hellloo, I am in a band and have fallen for this guy who is three years above me in school, i want to ask him out and have been very close to this many times, but if i do what do we talk about and do on our date, it will be awkward and i want so ...

Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...

Do I walk away from dating him because he does drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Getting to know this guy, really like him. He's wonderful and we're having lots of fun together. We're both at uni. But, I have some doubts. He's been really open about telling me he takes drugs when he's out in the evenings, it's the sort of scene ...

People tell me I'll find someone else but I want HIM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - It would be wonderful to get some insight into this situation. The short version is this: I've met someone that I felt this brotherly love for, as a friend, but recently I had an epiphany and realized I had feelings for him. The trouble is,...

I like him, my friends don't, and his g/f is evil

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Hello! So I've started to really like this boy, who doesn't go to my school, but is part of my group. But none of my friends like him.. He is also a bit younger than me, which is another reason why I'm 'not allowed' to like him. He's known to ...

I lost weight and now I am no longer interested in heavier women. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I've lost quite a bit of weight this past year, and it certainly shows. I'm a bit worried about myself, however. Back when I was overweight, I never wanted to get into relationships. I really felt I needed to make a solid first impression first, so ...

After we already go out and I'm interested she tells me she's been seeing someone else! What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Hi, There's a girl I've liked for quite a while now. I've taken her out for lunch a couple of times, just as friends and have got her number too. Its just about the end of school term and she said that we should get some dinner one day b...

I love my boyfriend but keep thinking of my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I am 20 and My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 and 1/2 year. We both say we love eachother because we both have never ever felt this way about anyone. We have talked about how we care about each other enough to do whatever is ...

Is he emotionally blackmailing me so that I'll stay with him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I wrote on here a few days ago asking for advice and I got brilliant advice and took it. My thread was 'help me make a decision about this guy'. I talked to my bf last night about things that were bothering me about our relationship. He listened...

Since I asked her to be my girlfriend she backed off, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Hi dear cupid, I'm 19, she's 17. I met her, got her number we started calling and texting each other very frequently. After a month it was almost like we were boyfriend and girlfriend but I hadn't officially asked her, but in theory we were. I...

Should I fulfil my fantasy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 21 year old male and I have had a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, we are very sexual in the bedroom and we are both really comfortable with each other, we watch both lesbian and gay porn together and she knows I get really turned on ...

I've been waiting for a sign to see if this is the real deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - i have been with this guy for about 3 years . trust me i love him verry much . but i feel athough were not in love with eachother if that makes since . ive been waiting for some sighn that this is a real deal or not but its kind of in limbo . i ve ...

How long do I wait before I give up on him? He's over there going out drinking, I'm still here paying the bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - When my fiancé moved to another city for a new job we decided he would get settled and find a nice place for us to live. Then the plan was that I would leave my job here and follow him. Once there I could look for another job, during which time he ...

I don't want to get involved in his custody issues. But should I be concerned about his drinking and his custody issues if he is to be my Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a man for one year following the break up of my only other long term relationship. We don’t see each other every week because we live some distance apart. I am wondering how much I should concern myself with what, to me, is a...

Is he trying to tell me something by taking longer and longer between when he calls me on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other. Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by....

I get a hug and kiss once a week if I'm lucky...What's up with that??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for a year and he doesnt hug or kiss me. We have discussed this more than once because it bothers me, of course..and he says he is "trying" to be more affectionate. Am I wrong for thinking he just doesn't love me? He tell...

She's pregnant. All good. But why does it seem I care more then she does in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I am in a relationship with an amazing woman for over a year. We live together, are planning on marriage soon, and recently discovered she is pregnant. All this is wonderful and she is constantly on my mind. I really love her she is wonderfu...

How do I tell him he's messing up? He only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - My guy never admits he's wrong in fights. Even though my feelings are really hurt and I am crying and everything, he acts like he didn't do anything wrong. In reality, he did, and he only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it to ...

Do I care too much? I feel like he puts his friends before me. How do I make his less of a priority?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I feel like I care too much about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, and we love each other very much. I know he loves and cares about me, but I feel like I care about it way more than him. I want to spend time with him ...

She never wants to do couples things. How do I keep her happy and not lose my negative girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is always getting mad at me no matter what i do for her. she never satisfied. It is as if whatever i do for her is never enough for her. She a very negative person always thinking negative as if nothing could never good right and she...

We both play sport. It's seriously upsetting me that she will not support me the way I support her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I went to every one of my gf's games for various sports all year. She couldn't go to any of my baseball games this spring because of lacrosse. She decided to quit basketball so I thought she could finally come support me this summer like I've ...

I want her so crazy it is driving me crazy. Should I go after her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Ok I am an 18 year old male, and met a hot 16 year old female. She is super sexy, and fiesty, and the chemistry is on between us. I accidently saw a pic of her nude, and it turned me on out of this world. Should I go after her and have wild sex all ...

Guy I am dating is away for a month - How should I act now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles, I met this guy at the end of March.Since then,we went out 4-5 times,before I went to my hometown for 2 weeks (easter break).We kept contact via phone,and when I got back to the city,we went out and he asked to see me the ...

Theres a pic of my breasts on everybodys phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - ok, so i was with this one guy, lets call him bob, and i dumped him...the night that i dumped bob, i was texting an older guy, (fred)..and i sent him a picture of my tits...two days later i started dating a different guy,(george) and i'm still with ...

Should I speak to him right now of how I feel or wait and see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Well, where shall I start? Over a year ago I started dating this guy a friend introduced me to. I had my doubts at first but then I agreed to go out with him. At first it was too incredible. He was kind, passionate. The first sign that something was ...

Needing a man's advice on texting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm 23 and me and my man have not been together long- but we but be became serious pretty quickly... I never like texting much... Well we don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like bc I'm a mother and can't always get a sitter... When ...

Would you rather like someone too much, or have them like you too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - A hypothetical question: Would you rather date someone who you really liked but they weren't so into you? Or someone who you weren't really into but they really liked you? This is a real life situation I'm in right now, so thanks so much fo...

I'm the only single guy left in my group of friends. Feeling left out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I'm feeling really lost right now and It's starting to get me down. I'm 25 and recently finished my time serving active duty in the military. I was really excited about getting out and moving back to my hometown, but I'm finding the transition ...