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anonymous
writes: my girlfriend has some very revealing photos of her slef on facebook and almost none with me. i hate it and i have told her. she just keeps telling me im paranoid. but i am just looking out for her, i think, because you can get pervs on facebook. i also hate the comments under the photos.am i being paranoid, controlatative and defensive over her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): Let's be honest. You're not just concerned about her well being. You're also concerned about the relationship and so you should be.
Posting revealing photos tells others she is available. Her failure to make mention of you tells others she is not attached to anyone she considers important. She may not act on the attention she gets but by leading herself to temptation it may only be a matter of time.
This is a deal breaker for me. If I were with someone who behaved this way they'd be history.
Tell her if she wants all that male attention she might as well be single and free to enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): No, no (even though that's not an actual word--controlling is what you mean) and yes but of course you would be.
She is naive and does not respect herself. Ask her what she is expecting to get out of showing those photos.
If she wants to carry on like that then don't be surprised if more self-disrespecting behavior follows.
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