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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I tell him I was just flirting to have a little fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So I have a problem with what to do with this guy now. Today I met this guy and I was flirting a bit. It was harmless, not meant in anything serious at all I was just having a bit of fun. Anyway he started showing quite a bit of interest in me. So ...

My dream girl already has a fella

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - i have fallen for a girl who has a boyfriend.. i am not one to break people up and i know that this girl has some feelings for me. i have asked her to spend a night away from the town we live in. she said yes and i felt happy but its not for another ...

Boyfriend doesn't believe in marriage. Will he ever marry me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together near two years, both early thirties, known each other since we were fifteen. I have been married and divorced twice and have two children and cannot have any more, he does not want children of his own. We have ...

All of my girlfriend's friends think she's single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Been with girlfriend just over 4 years. At begining she didnt want to tell anyone just to see if things would work out between us. As time has gone on, she comes up with more and more excuses for not telling anyone. All her friends think she is ...

There's no reason why I should be into this guy, but why can't I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Why am I having such a hard time moving on from this? There's no reason why I should be this into this guy. I barely know him, we went out once. It should be easy to break all ties with him seeing as how there aren't any. Yet I constantly find ...

Do I or don't I want kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I'm at a rather hard turning point in my relationship. We split up for reasons that can be easily fixed with some counseling and a lot of work. However, how we go forward from here hinges on whether I can provide her with the future that she dreams ...

Idk what to do, help! :( guys could give the best advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called eachother " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have ...

How can we be friends when I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up about a month ago. We just recently started talking again, and now i feel so sad. We havent actually talked face to face, weve been passing notes. Well in one of those notes he told me that he still loved me and probably...

Does he just want the sex without love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Been dating a quiet/shy guy for about 5 month exclusively. He's only been in love twice and the 2nd time devistated him (unrequited love). Now he's fearful that it could happen to him again so he's not moving forward in our relationship towards ...

"I'm afraid my new BF wants to have sex at the Prom with another girl"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - ok well, about a week ago a boy added me on facebook and started talking to me and we've been talking ever since but last thursday he told me "i think you're really pretty...good music taste..makes me laugh...and...maybe you give me butterflies and ...

I do miss him. Does he just want me as FWB? He is unresponsive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i was dating a guy, but then i realize he just wanted me as a friend with benefits, so i wrote to him, that i felt that he just wanted me like that, and he was not intesrested in me. I know he was interested in dating many girls at the same time...

I pay for most of our outings. He fails to make me feel special. How can I get him to be more attentive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. As we have gotten older, he has had increasing financial responsibilities. I have much less financial responsibilities and I understand this so I usually pay for going out, dinner, trips, etc. I fe...

How should I let this lovely girl down gently, because I have gotten with my childhood sweetheart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I am a 29 year old male, have been a bachelor for the past 3 years, and have previously experienced a long-term cohabiting relationship. When I was 17, I fell for a girl, lets call her Girl A, who lived nearby in my home-town. We dated for 6 mont...

We had a big fight. I need advice on what to do next.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hey! Today we fight, me and my boyfriend "It's a big One." He started yelling and swearing at me. I didn't say anything. I told him I wanted to go, and he told me if you go, you will never talk to me AGAIN, and I told him THAT'S WHAT I WANT. Th...

Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. On...

Guys, do you like tall girls?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Question for the guys, Do guys prefer a woman to be tall? Not taller than them, but not too short? Why do some guys dislike dating short women? Is is to do with the sex? lol ...

He says slaggy looking girls are adding him on Facebook, but that's not true. Should I say something, again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've being going with a guy for nearly 7 months. We met over facebook. He lives in the same area as me, but I didn't know him. Hasn't being the easiest of relationships. He really gets to me about his facebook habits. He is adding girls all the time...

I accidentally gave him the wrong number and I don't think I will ever see him again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I started out in my first job a couple months ago and I met this guy called max who I ended up working really closely with almost every night and we became good freinds till it sort of became obvious neither of us wanted to be..Just freinds..how ...

Should I give up on him? Or should I try a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So theres this guy i really like him i think he likes me too.he would ditch his friends in class for me.and sit next me..and when i asked him to hook me up with his his cousin but i was only joking and every time i asked him he a smile on his face ...

Do guys usually have an idea of how a girl's body would look like without clothes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Do guys usually have an idea of how a girl's body would look like without clothes? Or are they completely surprised when the clothes come off? I have an average body type, more so on the thin side. But I'm not lean and fit with muscles. Guys can...

Am I just scared to be vulnerable again? Am I trying to avoid love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So I used to see a guy named "D" a year ago during the summer. We were friends (more like acquaintances) for three years prior. He had just gotten out of a relationship (of 3 years) when I started seeing him. He told me they had broken up 2 weeks ...

Should I jump the gun to let him know I want him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - If you felt that a man showed interest in you, would you reciprocate even further? There's a guy - an older man - at my university who I'm physically attracted to (just thinking about him turns me on!). He's recently let me know that he's noticed ...

If I can't win her back, how can at least show her how sorry I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - To answer you imminent question, No I’m not a clingy stalker guy. I’m just a person who made stupid, STUPID mistakes, regrets it and wants the woman he loves more than the entire world back so I can treat her how I should have to begin with. Anna...

What can I do to sort out my/our feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I have moved into the situation now where the guy like- does like me too! Unfortunately he is in a difficult relationship and thinks it might not last. He doesn't want to string me along and therefore doesn't want to pursue anything. Fair enough and ...

Tips for giving a guy space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I just want tips on how to give a guy space and if I'm right for doing this Ok so this weekend my guy has talked to me all day Saturday and I mean no contact at all.I try to make contact he doesnt reply at all so I leave him alone thinking he's bus...

My girlfriend might be moving away for University.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for four years now and we have a very stable, happy relationship. Last week everything took a bit of a shake, as I found out she had feelings for another guy (not huge feelings... but feelings) and It reall...

I broke up with her over a co-worker but now I want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Im so bothered right now, I dont even know where to start. I recently had been dating my girlfriend for one year. I met her at work, I had my eyes set on her the first time I set my eyes on her. Now im not an athletic type of guy and def not no ...

Boyfriend still calls his ex "darling" and "sweetheart". Those are my names!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months. He is in the Marine Corps and is currently on a deployment. He and I knew each other from high school, and have been good friends for years before we started dating. He had dated a girl...

Do you think you can tell what a person is like by their photo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I am just curious: do you think you can tell what a person is like by looking at their photo? I do a lot of online dating and sometimes contact a girl by their profile photo...but I am thinking this might be a silly approach, since often you ...

Does it sound like I am paranoid, or is this likely to be my gut instinct telling me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Am I just being paranoid over this or not? I am deeply in love with a man I have been in a relationship with for the last nine months. We work together and are keeping this under wraps because of the company rules. We are very close in all ...