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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why do women keep insisting that they are fat even after their man tells them they are perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - If a women is always the best looking in the crowd why does she keep reminding herself she is fat. Guys dont like a bone. We all have a type but we love attention and security not to get broken at heart. BEcause then we have to show sad emotion...

Is it possible he likes me because he insults me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Ok, i hope you guys can really help me. Because i am so confused, and i don't know what to do. Ok, so I'm in high school in yr 9. And there's this boy and he doesn't treat me very well, it is so not a crush! But I'm just confused about the way he...

Is it time to dump, date, or do nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I am dating this guy for the past 3 months. I only got divorced 7 months ago after a 13 year marriage and 3 children. To me, my kids are my first priority. I was a stay at home mom until the divorce. I have been working for the past 5 months and ...

Do all guys just go out to get sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i've dated a few guys in the last two months, one after the other and none of them ended up anywhere. i understand dating is hard, and obviously not everyone meets the right person. but soon after these guys went on two or so dates with me (which ...

I don't get treated to anything at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My man doesn't take me out! We've been together a good five months, and he's never taken me for a meal, or anything of the sort. We've been for a few picnics and days out, but usually accompanied my his friends! I feel like I can't ask him to...

It seems like he's just lost interest so should I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused with dating. I started seeing this guy and we went out on a few dates and we used to talk almost everyday and on the second date he told me that he told a girl who tried to ask him out that he was already seeing someone, that is ...

She keeps running from me to her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - This is a long story but i need peoples feedback because i don't know what to do :( Right so i met this girl out one night and we kissed, she was completely drunk but the next week I saw her again and we started talking and she seemed really ni...

What if one day we have absolutely nothing in common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - OK, so after near 7 months, he said, "I love you." I know just how serious this was for him, given his past and the need to be sure he was ready and meant it. He even recently said I should start leaving clothes at his place so that I can stay ...

Quick question...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Say you like someone pretty early on, and you suspect they like you but don't liiiikkke you (or are undecided at that time)...Have you ever had an experience where you started to crush on someone years after you've met them or even months? Do most ...

Should I confront him about this FB message or am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys :) I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months now and I do trust him but yesterday on his Facebook profile one of his friends (who I've never met but who he has talked about to me) left him a comment saying '... and I'll be home so...

I'm scared to lose her but she has lost love for me, what can I do to get her back in my arms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girl started dating last year march 2009, things became solid in April, thats when life time promises started...we promised to love each other no matter what obstacles may come our way. We both started so smooth and even when hard times ...

I don't know how to handle the relationship he has with a female friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I am in a relation with a guy since last 3 years, he is very aggressive. not only with me but also to his family members, so i just accept this thing as his nature. He is having a female friend who proposed to him for marriage 3 yrs back, but he ...

Will the age issue be there like a sore that will not heal and eventually destroy the relationship? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - Hello, i am a 43 year old man and for the last year i have been in a relationship with a wonderful, beautiful, mature acting 22 year old woman. I am very happy with her, i've hit the jackpot at last.....but there are problems and i would appreciate ...

There was an incident with my BF's brother and it has ruined our relationship. Please give me some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - hello, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now an we have had it very hard. he was married before before but wasnt getting on with his wife. he also still lives in the same house with his wife STILL). i have had numerous rows with ...

Am I in love with my friend's girlfriend or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - hi everyone i really need help my head is a right mess atm i apolgise if its long but i want to give a clear picture. one of my friends is going out with this girl who is amazing. when i became friends with him i saw his girlfriend and added h...

Does he have feelings for her or are they just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Hey, sorry this is going to be a long rant but I need to get it off my chest. The names have been changed. I'm really confused and don't want to discuss this with anyone who knows me because friends always seem to want to reassure me and Pauls' fr...

I am obese and therefore have very low self esteem and self confidence...what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Hello I am a 25 year old guy. I am about 5'8" tall and weight around 220lbs. By medical standards that is obese! Probably the first thing that you will tell me is "lose weight!" well, I should and I am trying right now. However, I feel very u...

I am guy crazy at the moment and it is taking over my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - It may be a tad long but please! I never, ever. Used to be like this!? I can feel it's taking over me and quickly ruining me as a person and my social life with friends. These past few weeks i have become very, very guy crazy!! I cant not notice all ...

She has stopped texting me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I told my classmate that i like her but through text only. She said that she only likes me as a friend, and after that she stopped texting me. What does it mean?...

How can I tell if she is into me or is just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - i've posted on here before asking for a bit of advice on how to tell if someone is into you or if they're just platonic friends. truth is that i'm really confused by this girl, and i really care about her, so i'm going to try this one more time. i'm ...

Is she more than FRIENDS to my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a female friend of 8 yrs whom hes very close to. This send off red flags because he seems to like her more than friends.. although she is dating too but he's just always happy to see her everytime.. like tonight, he told me that she ...

Extremely shy around girls, any dating tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Okay, so.. I'm sixteen and in high school, but I'm mad shy around girls.. I used to be extremely big into lifting, but over the summer I broke my hand and then seperated my shoulder. I'm a little on the heavy side now, but honestelly not that bad, ...

How can I help him understand that if we both work on communicating better, the relationship will be better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are recently having a problem communicating, and I'm wondering what I can do. Here's the background: We've been dating seriously for almost four years and plan to move in together this summer. We're both adults with stable live...

Men don't like me, what can I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I am getting so wary, in my whole life I had only a handful of terrible relationships, and because I prefer to be alone than in a terrible relationship I was mostly alone. I thought for many years that it was because of my looks, last year I even ...

Really?! "a kiss can mean nothing?!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I'm currently single and I'm not looking to get back with my ex. but what bugs me is I want to know what a girl means by "a kiss can mean nothing." When I finally got the courage to kiss her one afternoon after a bike ride around a lake and park ...

Is there any way to know that he's genuine in his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend a little over a week now, and i still dont know if i can trust him. I have heard about his past relatioships and flings from friends of mine, but they are only going by what they have been told by other people. He has told ...

He told me that he has missed me and it felt right being with me. I think maybe that is a good sign? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I reall like a friend of mine. Few months ago we went through break ups which brought us closer together but even before then we were always very close. I knew he liked me from last year and when we both became single we just sort of got together ...

Should accept the fears and limitations of my parents or move on with my life as the adult I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i'm a 20 year old woman who still lives with her parents. i have a 25 year old boyfriend who lives in another state. i've been planning a trip to see my boyfriend and go with him to a convention since december of last year. i spent around 200 ...