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male
age
30-35,
*owgeorge
writes:Me and my b/f started dating on phone and it took us about 3-4 months before we could see each other. It was a week after me and my b/f started dating that a friend of mine came to visit me and i told her about my new boyfriend and showed her all the texts my b/f sent to me. my friend had to secretly take my b/f's number and started calling him. About 3 days later, She went to visit my b/f without my knowledge and they both had sex, and none of them told me. It was sometime later that i suspected, that my b/f now told me what really happened and i forgave him but my friend never told me anything until after about 8 mnths later that she now told me and apologized and i equally forgave her. The problem now is that my friend's new b/f which was formerly my long lost friend is now interested in me and i made a mistake of having sex with him hoping that will quench his thirst, not knowing that it will rekindle the feelings he has for me. But I decided to stop it in so many ways but couldn't up to the level that about some days ago, he forced me and had sex with me. Im confused and dont know what to do about it. And i dont want to tell my friend so as not to break her heart because he really loves the guy. What should i do.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 If he forced you to have sex well then this is called rape and you need to talk to someone about it. If he raped you then contact your local police station and tell your friend straight away as am sure you wouldnt want him to hurt your friend in the same way. You need to be honest and tell your friend what happened.
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