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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I get so frustrated about my bf's habit of walking away from our arguments!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Is it a bad thing to walk away from a fight? Or an argument? Instead of staying around and sort things out? My boyfriend and I ended up in an argument, where his final response was that he couldn't say anything right because it seems I get hurt...

My married manager and I are invovled in an affair, and I want out--but I don't want lose my job!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Need some advice please. My married manager who I for the last year have seen more as an uncle and he's a great deal older than me, i'm only 20. He's met my parents several times and I always saw him more like a caring uncle than my manager. However ...

I'm 15, he's 19, and he's giving me mixed signals as to whether he likes me or not!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Okay so I like this boy, and he's 19, and i'm 15. And we're friends, yeah, and we just recently started talking again, and then he wanted to start texting. And even though he hasn't seen me in a while, he said I look good. And then when I saw him at ...

Advice on Dating For Guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4706 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area. Opening Conversation: Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like the...

How will I know she will want me to kiss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - im going to a party at the weekend and the girl i like is going. it seems like she likes me as well as we both flirt and she starts it off. i think that we may kiss or snog at this party. the thing is i haven't kissed a girl properly in my l...

Am I moving too fast in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - well, i saw this girl for the first time in the mall. shes 16 and i'm 17 years old. then i made eye contact with her. the next day, on a tuesday i saw her in the train so we talked and i got her phone number. then we started texting each other. on ...

What do I do about the abusive part of my relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend hits me and gets in my face all of them time and he will not let me do anything at all, what do i do about the abuse part of my relationship?...

Am I jealous or is it just concern for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hey friends I need to ask you something.I have a small story to tell you.Let myself be A,I have a acquaintance B(male) and a good friend C(female).This B person proposed me 1 day and I refused very gently keeping in mind all pros and cons since I ...

He takes so long to text back that it's tedious now. Should I bother with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - There is this guy i am texting, he has a busy life from what i know so i can understand why he doesn't text back quickly. But the fact he takes 2 hours at MINIMUM to reply!!? And the other times it's like 5 hours!! What is up with that, it's just ...

Stupid thoughts about the grass being greener

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I'm in a great relashionship. I love my girlfriend, I admire her and I really see a great future and family together. We are both 27, on the verge of buying a house and talking about having kids. Still... I'm a stupid guy with a stupid instinct. E...

I told him he could sleep with other girls while he was away, but it's killing me. Should I try to make it work when he gets back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I am writing this because I feel like I need an outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, I am 16, he is 19. In January, he left for China to teach for his gap year. Obviously this was going to be hard...

Tips for starting conversations with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Hi im 18 and have just come out of a 3 year relationship. Previous to this i was incredibly shy and never really talked to anyone. This relationship i had was petty bad as the girl i was with would not let me talk to other girls not that i did befo...

If the first time you meet a guy he talks about sex, is that all he wants from you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with ...

Is it ok to have sex with my professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - hi, so my problem is that I'm in a relationship with my professor at college I'm only 20 and he is 42...we meet up 3 times a week in this apartment .However, we didn't have sex until now although that we have been together for 4 months because ...

Card help for a gf who believes in 2012.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - hi can anyone help me please i need advice on a card for my gf, she believes in 2012, so im thinking this, but should i put (if your have me) or (if you have me that long) or something else, please help. thank you messages below for your viewin...

My ex has moved on but I cant seem to!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two or three months. I have not spoken a word to her since I left her house after saying it was over. She told me she had feeling for a friend of hers and they have now been dating for a while now. I ...

Is he serious about changing his ways or is he just talking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid! Me and this guy met seven months ago through a mutual friend and instantly clicked. We both graduated from the same college, have alot in common and are relatively known for what we do. I'm a journalist and he's a filmmaker/journa...

My boyfriend is always breaking our plans for his friends, I'm sick of it and told him so. He hasn't listened. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend for 1 year plus always abandoned me last minute for our dating to go out with his friends. This has happened several times like during count downs and even on christmas eve. I am sick of it... Told him several times and he is ...

Should I just turn into a "cya" kind of person too from now on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I’m really blue at the moment – a guy I had dated at High School came back into my life the other month and was still into me. He had always really liked me and said he considered me ‘the one that got away’. So naturally, when he asked...

Why do women date the bad boys but marry the nice guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, i was wondering why women date and sleep with bad boys through out there youth but run to marry nice guys in there 30's when there less attractive and are looking for stability and safety for a guy who has worked hard, being dumped for ...

How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a ...

How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...

Is it wishful thinking that he likes me? Or could it be reality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - dear readers i need help i know you probably get questions like this all the time...im falling for this guy and im unsure if he likes me back...can any one shed some light on my situation? okay the background.. i met him 5 weeks ago, i only se...

His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfrie...

He's making me feel guilty when I did nothing wrong. How do I get him to listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - This past weekend i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend, but he had to work so instead i went to a party with a few of my girlfriends. when i got to the party, i noticed my daughter's father was there. Me and my friend had a few drinks and ...

Guys : Girls what do you think of "the rules?"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - The Rules: do you ladies out there follow them? And men- does it work? Do you like a lady better of she ignores you until you call? I'm asking because I'm such an open book and I think I make it too easy for guys by being easy going and not pl...

My boyfriend told me to never wear my sister's dress again because it made him feel he was kissing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - So today when i went to see my bf i was wearing this dress, it belongs to my younger sister and she wore it to a dinner we all attended a while ago. So when my bf saw me he asks me about the dress and said it looks like something my sister would ...

Should I be forced to invite my cousin to my bfs small birthday dinner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Today I called my mum to invite her and my father to my boyfriends birthday dinner in a couple of weeks. I explain that we don't have a set date put aside but heads up - it will be in two weeks. Immediately she tells me that as my cousin will be ...

What would be my type for a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - What do you think what would be my type of girl for a girlfriend. My hobbies are playing video games, hanging out with friends, using my computer for different things, reading comics and I'm a happy person....