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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with me in not wanting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I want to stay out of trouble,not having relationship with someone,and focus on my things. I do like chatting with friends and hanging out with them but not the kind of boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes it makes me mad that some of my friends ask ...

How to get over a girl, and remove the breakup jealousy I am having?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Hey, About a week ago (tomorrow it will be one week), i broke up with my girlfriend, she is a very free spirited person, and a very independent person, she told me i was being immature, and that i am needy, insecure, possessive, controlling, and...

Does body odor matter when you feel chemistry for someone?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - This might sound weird but... do you guys think the smell is part of feeling chemistry with someone? LOL ok, well a guy doesn't have to necessarily smell "bad", but isn't true that when you feel chemistry with someone, their body smell drives you ...

If he just wants to get physical, what does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi, This is a question for the guys. What does it mean when a guy just wants to get physical with a girl? I don't mean violence. Does it mean he's just after sex? Thanks...

How do I tell my family and friends about my BF without shocking them too much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I recently got together with a guy who I really care for and like. He's like THE guy I've always wanted my bf to be like and the feeling's mutual for him as well. I enjoy the chemistry we share and I've never been more thankful to have met a guy ...

Should I accept my bf's faults or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Are these reasons to end a relationship? *we only get to sleep together about 4 nights in every 2 months due to work commitments, even though we live 5 miles apart! His excuse is that i wake up far too early as he's a late sleeper and i fidge...

Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me ...

I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the ...

Would it be okay for me to see him, even though we are on placement and he has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Please help. I really lke this guy who i am on a work placement with, but he has a girlfriend. He has smiled and winked at me a few times, does that mean anything ?. He also sent me a friend request on facebook, and i added him. we havent spoken to ...

I'm worried that sex on the first date was a deal-breaker. Should I ask him where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I recently went out with friends a few weeks ago and met a guy. We exchanged numbers. Got to know a bit about each other and made plans to get together. So we finally get together and end up sleeping together. I don't make it a habit of sleeping ...

BF looked at massage parlor/escort sites. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of 5 years looked up a review site for massage parlors/escorts. I was looking at his web history because I was curious how often he looked at porn, which I'm fine with. According to the web history, about 3...

Said he wants to marry me, but he also said he had the perfect girl and he lost her. I need some advice about this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we have both fallen for each other "in love". Currently I notice that all of the women in his previous relationships have started to pop up. Giving him phone calls questioning our relation...

Was it wrong to ask my boyfriend what he thought of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is ...

Do you think either like me? Right now it's my friend's GF and another girl I met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - hi everyone i recently posted a question on here about a girl that i liked and my feelings towards her and all of the answers that i received to me that i was in love with her. she is one of my friends' girlfriends and since i have known her she has ...

Is it normal to develop crushes even though you have a boyfriend and love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for just over 2 months. I recently started a TAFE course and there's a guy in it who reminds me so much of my boyfriend, the way he looks, acts and talks. We get along really well and flirt ...

He got real personal. Did I overreact? Should I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - well, I've been single for 2 yrs now haven't really liked anyone since i split with my ex. Anyways I started talking to this guy on facebook well he talked to me first, we have arranged to meet up (in a public place I'm careful lol) but we haven't ...

We say we love each other, but we are both bored in the relationship. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have just gotten back together. This is the third time, ever. And I feel as though she's quite boring, we've talked about it several times. And we suggest to hang out more. kiss more, etc... It turns out she doesn't like to kiss ...

Guys - do most of you struggle with committment and why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hello. It turns out that the guy I am with and have been with for coming up to 1 and ½ years may have some commitment issues. don’t get me wrong, he’s great, we love each other and we are still together and have no intention of breaking up but he ...

Should I stick around and get my needs met without any commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?

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19 May 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever goi...

Is it possible to win his heart back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - hi! i would want to know if i would even win my babys fathers heart back? i did soo much to hurt him after he left me cause he was sick of playing the break up make up game, i lyed to him about me having a miscarriage cause i told him that i was ...

I want to get close to him again but I'm terrified of rejection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - First of all, I would like to state that I am in no way vain or conceited, just genuinely confused on what happened here. I am 27 years old, I have a Master's Degree, I work at a publishing company, and I'm fairly attractive. I met a guy back in ...

I don't know how to meet someone that I might want to go out with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Ok I'm kind of confused but I'll give it to you as simple as possible: I'm bi. I know that for a fact at this point in my life I think a I prefer girls to guys. But the problem is I don't know how to meet anyone I might wanna go out with. Funny en...

Is this a date? Or just 2 friends going out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need your help with a great urgency until WEDNESDAY. Three weeks ago I started to become close with someone from my office. I am bisexual but I never fell in love with a guy before and I think he is straight. We become closer an...

Playing peek a boo for a year. will he ever ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - A co-worker and I have been playing peek-a boo for over a year. We do not speak to one another. This week we locked eyes and he had a genuine smile and his eyes sparkled and I smiled back. Has he finally let me know he is intereted and likes me? ...

The good qualities I'm searching for are always found in married men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my teacher who's very much married and have 2 kids. Is it wrong to feel this way?? I am still single and never had any relationship in my 30 years of existence. i don't seem to attract single guys and probably that's also the reason ...

Boyfriend is mad because my first friend is a guy! And I think he's jealous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, Yesterday, sorry i wrote this today too much homework me and my boyfriend, well call him S because names aren't allowed, came across my first friend, we'll call him C. Anyway here is the thing. My boyfriend can't believe th...

The wedding is so close and I know I love this guy but why do I keep focusing on reasons why the wedding shouldn't happen when the date is so close and there is a kid involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - The man I am with treats me very well, and treats my 7 year old kid just the way I would want a step parent to treat her, but there is no heat in our relationship anymore and I am SOOO infatuated with a guy I used to work with and constantly see him ...

Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still ...

Ideas for new things to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - im 18/f hes 19/m well i have significant feelings for my bestfriend and were hanging out at his house again tomorrow, except this time we have no idea what to do. everytime i go over his house we play video games, watch movies, go for walks, pl...