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writes:So I've been with this guy for almost a year now and i feel like he is my "one" but neither of us have said "i love you". I have always had issues saying it but he hasn't. So why hasn't he said he loves me??? I sometimes feel like he is cheating but it might all be in my head. I don't know what to do. I feel like if i say i love him he might reject me or be like "I'm sleeping with someone else" or something along those lines. Again I don't know what to do or how to deal. I feel stupid asking this little question on a site full of more improtant ones. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): It obviously matters to you. My advice is to tell him say along the lines of "i think im in love with", you shouldnt worry about saying it you have been with this guy a year, and it will put your mind at ease because at least you will know where you stand with him.If he doesn't say it back well you have your answer, and I would move on and not waste anymore time with him. It might just be as afraid you won't feel the same, just say it and see what happens. He should know himself at this stage whether he loves you or not.Good Luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): tell him if you love him if thats how you feel and see what he says.
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