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I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!

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Question - (8 April 2011) 17 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2011)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective families about us unless we involve her in "one" night of love making between my cousin, her and I. I would rather not because I'm not attracted to her, but I cant let our families know about our taboo love. Should my cousin and we include her in "one" night of sex with us or let her tell everyone?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2011):

no don't do it let her tell them! imagine how much trouble you'd get in! just let her tell them and black mail her with what she asked if she denies get it on recording

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011):

My opinion? Cassidy14 has it right; the truth is going to come out in the end anyways, yes? Dude, just do her sister too. Then that's 2 notches to your belt instead of 1. And a notch for "threesome." You never know, you might like it...

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A male reader, radhey India +, writes (11 April 2011):

better dont bow to her.

if you love your cousin and both of you have plans for marriage then let it be known to your and her family.

that is more safe than falling into the dirty holes of that sister

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A female reader, Cassidy14 United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2011):

Cassidy14 agony auntIf this is a true story then you should not include her and just see what she is going to do because somehow the truth almost always comes out in the end so you should just be prepared if this secret does come out.

Maybe even consider telling your families yourself it might make things easier.

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (10 April 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntAlright well. Is her sister reliable? Judging from the fact that she wants you to include her, sounds like she might be a bit mentally unstable. Theres a very good chance that you can just play it off as her lying.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011):

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Sadly no, this isn't a joke, or some fantasy. Horridly, my situation is very real. I don't ever plan on sleeping with her sister. But I want to stay with her. I'm not sure what to do. I understand that dating my cousin is wrong enough. While no, neither of us plan on marriage and kids at any point in our lives with each other, but what her and I feel for each other is real. The same kind of feeling that you would feel for someone else that matches you perfectly in every way. It's something you just cant explain. Say what you will, but love is what it is, it doesn't matter who it's between.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011):

This isn't a real post, surely.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntWoo Hoo, you've got a chance at a sister sandwich! Live the dream man, live the dream!

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A male reader, Philips United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2011):

Philips agony auntIs this a joke???

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A male reader, Hugh.J United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2011):

Hugh.J agony auntNew on here, but surely this is fake?

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A male reader, GRIFF TANNEN United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

GRIFF TANNEN agony auntNice story, would be cool if it was real. Threesome with a hot cousin and her sexy sister. I'd be in for it but I think you got this from some porn scenario!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntI just love the "Three Billy Goats Gruff" story. Trolls are really funny aren't they?

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (8 April 2011):

Aunty BimBim agony auntWhat a crock, you are a fake and your story is too!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (8 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt This is some jokester's prank.

As if your gf thinks it's "taboo" to date a cousin, so she does not have the nerve to defy the taboo

- but would have no problem having an incestuous 3some with her own sister.

Hard to believe. Pls.come up with something better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011):

As "shawncaff" says, it will be bound to come out sooner or later, but your sister will lose her hold over you once she has revealed all, so call her bluff: she won't tell.

But DON'T, DON'T DON'T involve your sister in any sexual activity or you will be in serious trouble.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (8 April 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntHell no.

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A male reader, shawncaff United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

shawncaff agony auntUm...I am pretty sure the unanimous answer to this will be "no".

OK, in some areas, dating a cousin would not be considered incest. But in ALL areas, your cousin/gf having sex with her sister is DEFINITELY incest.

Address the issue of telling your family about dating your cousin. They are gonna find out anyway. But under no circumstances should you ever consider this.

You should also consider getting your gf's sister into some serious therapy.

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