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writes:Well there is this girl that i met at this event with my friends, i really liked talking to this girl and she seemed intrested in me as well. I got the guts to ask her for her number and she gave me hers and she also asked for mine.The next day she texted me and asked if i needed a ride to the activity,so anways she sits by me in almost all of the activities, and we text from time to time and her texts are always,in a flirtious manner.Well anyways once i got the courage to ask her out, but she said that she was doing something that day at that time.She said that if it was any sooner she might be able to go.So i texted her back and told her of the new time and she said that she couldnt go at all because she was really busy that day. I said that it was fine... and she texted me several times telling me that she was sorry,it actually felt kind of weird because she kept saying how next time, and how she was busy, and sorry she couldnt go and that maybe next time she might be able to go. i actually said no promblem and i left my phone down and a few minutes later she said sorry again. So i thought that in my mind she was really into me and that she was really busy, but i later found out that the event was cancelled and she never called back to say that she was free.So anyways we still keep in contact she actually invited me to her birthday party and other events, and when i have something imortant she always texts me about how it went, anyways while we are at these events she always smiles at me and sits by me etc.So anyways my question was should i keep persuing this girl or should i move onto something else?
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (8 April 2011):
This girl has given no reason for you to be concerned. Apart from turning down one date because she was busy, all her other actions suggest that she likes you a lot-inviting you to her birthday, sitting near you, texting and taking an interest in the things that are important to you. Cancelling one date because she was busy isn't anything to be alarmed about, especially if she apologised and talked of a next time. It's very likely that although the event was cancelled, she thought it might be too short notice to ring you back to say she was now free. Also, if it was cancelled, there really was an event in the first place which proves that she wasn't being dishonest. On the evidence so far, I see no reason why you should be worried, and if you're keen on the girl it's worth trying to arange another date and seeing what happens. If you are continually turned down then of course it's a different story, but it would be very premature to give up on some-one you like when the only thing that concerns you is one date she couldn't make, in particular when everything seems to be going well apart from that.
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