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I'm sexting guys that aren't my boyfriend..but I don't want to

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Question - (19 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2011)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

ok, so i am in a relationship with a wonderful guy, and i am sooo happy with him, happier than ive ever been. but i on facebook, i always seem to add guys that are attractive, and they always talk to me, and this one guy sent me a message on yahoo and was telling me all of the things that he wanted to do with me, sexually. and i always tell my boyfriend about what they say, but i never tell him what i say back, because i really love my boyfriend, but hes innoscent and wouldnt understand. i like the attention that i get from guys, but i just wish it were my boyfriend that always gave it to me. and when i'm talking to these guys over facebook, and yahoo, i'm always pretending that it's my boyfriend im talking to. what should i do? and does this make me a slut? please no rude comments, i can't take them right now. thank-you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

Your question: "I'm sexting guys that aren't my boyfriend...but I don't want to."

Simple answer? THEN, DON'T.

If you want attention from your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want from him. See if he can make it happen for you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

Definitely not a S**t.

unfaithful? yeahhhhh.

how would you feel if your boyfriend were talking about sexual things with other girls? you probably would be heart broken. regardless if he were "thinking about you" the whole time while doing it. but don't beat yourself up too terribly bad.

you're still young and it's honestly pretty relatively normal to do things like that. you've got the rest of your life to date and make mistakes. we all do. it's what we learn from these mistakes that matters most.

but take my word - if you're feeling like you need to cheat on him or make these sexual comments with these guys, you need to break up with your boyfriend. you're either not happy with him, or you're not ready to be in a real relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

Okay if you love your boyfriend like you say you do stop talking to the guys online. If you don't sooner or later it is going to catch up with you and hurt your relationship with your boyfriend. Try talking to your boyfriend the way you talk to the other guys, or just tell him you want more out of the relationship. Tell him what you want and need.

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