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writes:ok ..so the guy that i really like is single again...i dont know if he has feeling for me or what..but i still really like him...should i try to get with him or should i let him ask me first? Reply to this Question
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reader, es123 +, writes (19 April 2011):
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reader, sroper70  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 As a guy, i always find it nice if there are some clues that she is interested - such as eye contact and starting a conversion. If you have not seen any evidence so far of him being interested in you, you may need to make some effort, ie to test the waters. To me lots of eye contact is the thing that shows interest the most, although for me it seems to always happen with women who are already in relationships. :(
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reader, sroper70 +, writes (19 April 2011):
As a guy, i always find it nice if there are some clues that she is interested - such as eye contact and starting a conversion. If you have not seen any evidence so far of him being interested in you, you may need to make some effort, ie to test the waters. To me lots of eye contact is the thing that shows interest the most, although for me it seems to always happen with women who are already in relationships. :(
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (19 April 2011):
Hi there. Were you ever with him before, or did you just like him from a distance?
If you think he has some interest towards you also, it's worth a try. But just try to become friends first by getting to know him well.
You could start by walking towards him with a little smile, and say "Hi". Then continue on walking to wherever you were going to - another class.
Then see how he reacts to this. Each time you pass him going to classes, do this - or he might. You get the idea.
Find out his interests, likes, dislikes, music, movies, hobbies etc. That way at least, you will find out if you share some common ground.
If you do find that you have some things in common, well just see how it goes over a few weeks and if it develops into some kind of boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
Whatever you do though, don't try to rush it into becoming a full blown relationship too soon - you might scare him off!
Take care and best wishes.
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