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writes:I've never really had a relationship and recently asked a close guy friend what he thought night be the problem. Anyway after a while of him being really polite he said that sometimes when I'm on my own I have a look that is kinda distant and makes me look quote "untouchable". I wasn't too sure what he meant but if that's what he thinks is the problem I want to try and solve it. Any ideas on how I can look less "untouchable" ? Reply to this Question
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reader, shabby-chic +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Hello,Sometimes we cultivate this habits without realising. The key however is to always be aware of our body language as they speak volumes. I would suggest to always keep a smile on your face when alone as we tend to have this far away look in our eyes that comes across to others that we are stand-offish. What I do is imagine that i am famous, so exude a confident aura as you have an audience watching your every move. Especially when entering a room on your own; head up, smile whilst staring above everyone's heads or choose a familiar face to direct your attention. This makes you appear approachable. Overall, if you want to change this, it begins with your thoughts. So smile more, think of something pleasant when alone and people will automatically be drawn to you.
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