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My friend says he wants to date me...now it's weird hanging around with him!

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Question - (19 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *jroller14 writes:

One of my friends told me he was starting to like like me, and now i find it weird to hang out around him. what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

I'm guessing you don't feel the same way?? Just make sure they know you're not interested in the nicest possible way and then just treat them like you normally would! It's really hard at first and I know you want to keep your distance but honestly, just try and act like nothings changed and eventually it should go back to normal!! Just hope the crush is just a phase..

-I was in your friends position once and in your position at least 4 times in the last year so I hope I helped a bit and that everything goes alright for you both :) x

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A female reader, FaddedDay Canada +, writes (19 April 2011):

FaddedDay agony auntMake sure that he knows that you're not interested (or are you? Because then just go for it), and not with subtle hins, outright talk to him about it. I've had this happen to me 8 times, because all of my friend are guys. Trust me, after you talk to them, and gently break it to them, you'll be fine so long as you don't make a big fuss about it.

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A female reader, bettertimes United States +, writes (19 April 2011):

If you like him, let him know. If you don't tell him you rather remain friends!

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (19 April 2011):

chigirl agony auntDo you like like him back? If so tell him you can go on a date with him. If you do not like him back tell him so and that you would rather keep the friendship instead.

Then just give it some time and things will get easier.

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