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*emmie
writes:i recently started having sex with my boyfriend at first it felt good but since that i have been very emotional and confused i really love him but it feels like he doesnt feel the same because he doesnt say he loves me and when we go out with mates his always more interseted in them than me the only time he seems to be interested is when he wants sex does he just find it hard to show his love or does he just want sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Babykins  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 Hi !! Demi, i really feel for you as you are still so young to find yourself in a predicument like this. You definatley sound very insecure in the relationship.You deserve the best not 2nd best, some one that make's you feel special long before it's time for sex or should i say bed time, either way.You should tell him how you feel and stand firm with confidence in a gentle manner. Move on if you still not sure. it wont get better so it's your choice.Just look in the mirror and embrace yourself. Love your soul and spirit, your skin holds it together You number one !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): it sounds like your not ready for sex talk to him and tell him how you feel if he loves you he wont want you to do anything if your not ready
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reader, fit man +, writes (7 September 2010):
it sounds like u might not be ready for sex tell him how you are feeling and if he love u he will interstand
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reader, demmie +, writes (7 September 2010):
demmie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe recently split up too becuase i found out that he had been cheating but got back together but im startinf to think he might not be worth the pain now
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reader, Inallhonesty...  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 I don't think you should be giving him any more of yourself in that way until you figure that out hun. If it doesn't seem like he's interested in you the same way emotionally as he is physically, then he could very well just be in it for the sex.
Actions speak louder than words and from what you're telling us, it seems pretty obvious but abstain from the sex for awhile and keep reading the signs. You'll see how he really feels once he's not getting what he's after. You have to learn how to protect your heart, soul, and your body from those just trying to use you.
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