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30-35,
*dman Voids
writes:Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart.Dear Cupid,I am with my girl for 3 years. We had a lil break up about 2 months back and she started texting a "friend" right away. She sent him pictures and videos and whatever, I felt very sad because I just thought that she took so lil time to move on it was like she dumped me for him, After a few weeks we started talking again and meeting up, She was still sending him naughty pictures even when things were good between us. At this point we were having sex and were acting like a couple even tho we didn't officially agree to it. When we did agree to try again she told me what she done and I was fairly pissed. Not because she moved on, But really because she done it so fast AND was still doing it while things were good ya know? I didn't know what to think but she told me she is never talking to him again and whatever, However, I found out from a friend that she sent him another picture over a year ago. And she never told me, I feel horrible, I always thought my girl would never hide something from me or anything. When I confronted her she just told me that she didn't want to tell me incase I broke up with her. It's been a few weeks since I found out and it has just been on my mind alot, I am heading back to college now which means that I will have a lot of contact with all my female friends again, A few of them have lost long term boyfriends and for a month or two they feel terrible, It just rips me up knowing how fast my girl moved on And how betrayed she made me feel.Basically my questions are,What would you do in my opinion?Do you think I can ever trust her again?Is it time to end it?I really need some help My mind is wrecked:(:(Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I don't have a high opinion on girls who give out pictures and videos to guys. It's very indiscreet way to get a guy's attention. She's being disrespectful to you. I don't even need to know the reason for your breakup. You need to end it like yesterday.
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