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writes:I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the only way out, even though I would have to come back, I need a break from here badly!But the real problem is he just seems to want me over there to have fun, and I think he means sex? I don't want to come back home after a few weeks with no money, having spent it all on flights etc, should he be the one who pays..?I asked him will I bring someone with me and he was like no, I mean hes a college guy, i know its pretty safe, but is he using me? Thanks.
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 i think its best that you dont go at all.
from your word im guessing he may be a total stranger, theres no way you should even consider going.
if you want to free yourself abit more from your family then just go out more with friends, do some extreme outside activities, like surfing; trust me its fun (3
just keep yourself occupied, and kindly reject his offer. i agree that, from the hints, all he wants is to use you..
good luck and tell me how it goes ;)
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