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I don't know what should I do with him?

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Question - (30 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I dated this guy for a month and the very last night I saw him, we got together. I didn't think that I was jumpin in or rushing it in because, I saw him like twice a week every week for a month.

Well the bottom line is that after that night(at the end of Oct) , We don't talk to each other anymore. which did hurt me at the begining and now im just annoyed..I thought i'd get over this pretty soon. But this never happend to me before and I don't know how to deal with it. All i want to do is to meet up with him and have a chat. Why could he not just tell me? Like I wouldn't turn into psycho if he said there's no chemistry or whatever..but I just don't like the way it ended if you know what i mean? I thought if i'd give myself a time..which i did (a month) and it doesn't help me to get over the situation..

what should i do?

how should i get rid of this annoying feelings inside me towards this situation? :(

please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010):

he asked me if I wanna meet up with him some night next week?

I am thinking is he just want a sex? or thinking me as a somekind of booty call of his?

Then I'd gladly meet him up and tell him to F off!! I don't know what is on this guy's mind.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

I think that's your closure right there. If he won't text you back then that's that to be honest. You know now why it ended because he's an inconsiderate asshole.

Seriously he's a bit of a gowl really, and there's no point in trying anymore or he'll think you're a bunny boiler. It will look a bit desperate if you don't mind me saying. He's just one of those fools that hasn't the guts to face you and tell you what happened. He doesn't deserve to meet up with you again. He deserves no contact at all.

If you're wondering if you did something wrong so you know in the future then no, you didn't. You see now the kind of guy he is so there's no need to put a negative reflection of what happened on yourself. You gave it your best shot and he just acted like a gowl.

It happens, there guys like that out there. Better to just to stay away from him, because he might reply and he might feed you a load of crap because if he's like this then the last thing you want is to get involved with him again. seriously closure is not worth the risk of that happening. Time to move on and forget this gobshite.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

Well I txted him last nite (which was an accident) and I got an reply from him but all my friends told me not to txt him back straight away and wait till 2mrw nite (which is tonite!) and I just txtd him back and he's not writing back to me at all :( Would it be strange if I txt him sometimes later next week or so..?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

You have to talk to him and get closure. You need to know what happened. No big deal just talk to him and all these feelings will pass eventually.

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