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Is this going anywhere?

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Question - (30 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok this guy and I have known each other since we were little but not always been in contact. Anyway we have been out twice it all went really well and we were getting closer. However I think I might have mucked it up last time we went out coz I didnt hug him or anything before going home. Not that long after I had got home he text to make sure he had a good night, so maybe he was a bit worried.

We have arranged to go out again but not an actual date just the activity because he doesn't know when hes next free. All our communication seems to be over text (a few filrty texts) or facebook which used to be quite often two or three times a week but now it has become less frequent with weeks in between sometimes. He has said that his phone is broken.

I'm starting to think that he has lost interest as we havent actually set a date and with not being in contact as much, but what do you think?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

He probably feels that u hav lost intrest as well. Mayb u should ask him about it.. Or js move on.. If u think their potential i would make an effort to text or talk on Facebook more..

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A female reader, pixiegirls United States +, writes (1 December 2010):

pixiegirls agony auntIt is quite possible that he has lost interest or may feel that you are no longer interested. When a second date is discussed, people usually try to plan it within two weeks and will normally stay in contact in the same level as you had been having. During any of your texts or Facebook chat or messages, has the subject been brought up about when this second date will be happening? How long has it been since your last date?

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