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Did my shyness blow it with my crush?

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Question - (30 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i have a huge crush on a guy with me in college

and it s been almost a year now and i know that he likes me too he really tried so many times to talk to me and i let him down everytime and just few weeks ago he came and sat next to me in the class and i just froze i didnt know what to do or say and i was blushing (ps im too shy) and thats not the problem coz actually just right after the lecture was over i changed my seat

and i guess that he kind of gave up after that and i cant blame him

i really like him and i just wanna talk to him but i dont know if still likes me anymore

was it really aweful what i did? and do i still have a chance with him?

i really wish if i can go back to change what i did

should i try and do something to let know that i like him or i better just forget about him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

It's not awful what you did, but he's probably feeling pretty rejected right now. You need to go and tell him you are sorry for ignoring him, that you want to get to know him, and that you're just really shy. If you can't handle that, could you put a note in his hand? It may or may not work, and you have to be prepared for it to go either way, which it sounds like you are. If it is too late, then you need to really work on your shyness so you don't let another opportunity pass you by. Go out with your friends to a party or something, and try striking up conversations with people that you don't know-that way it won't matter if you freeze up, just try again. Seriously, the more you practice, the easier it will get. No offense, but shyness this extreme at your age could really affect your future in a lot of ways. I was shy too, but eventually you have to make yourself come out of your shell. Good luck!

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