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writes:So my boyfriend has had 6 sexual partners(including myself).now me on the other hand i have only had 2(my first, and him)..Only 1 out of the five he had sex with,was while he was in a relationship.. the rest just casual sex..Now, MY opinion of casual sex for men and women is nasty.. i told him a couple months ago, you are too good to just be sleeping around without having that person solely committed to you..and so last night i asked, "if we weren't together/or if you were single, would you still have casual sex. he said it would be 50/50 chance. I WAS APPLAUDED!!I dont feel 20 mins of sex should compromise your health,reputation, etc. so my question is should i be involved with someone who doesnt share the same views/values as I? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): He sounds very young and immature. If that is what he wants, there is not way you can stop him so...you have to decide if you want that for yourself..can you accept a relationship where you husband is having sex with other people, or would it be too much for you to handle emotionally and mentally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): i think you need to lighten up. If he isn't doing it while you two are together its not a problem for your relationship.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (17 July 2010):
 You say you were "applauded". Do you really mean that? I imagine you meant to say "I was appalled."
Anyway, to answer your question: you asked him, and he told you. It's your call, but personally I wouldn't want to be involved with someone who treats sex so casually. He evidently does not share your values, which is definitely a minus in the relationship.......of course, if this is the way he chooses to live, then that's up to him. But you don't have to go along with it......incidentally, are you sure you are not at risk of catching an std from him?
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