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My girl said she hates me... but does she mean it?

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Question - (7 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *haun26 writes:

I'm currently going through a break up with my girl. She ended it and said some things to me that didnt make sense. i tried reasoning and asked for the truth with no reply. i love her so much and after 6 days of no contact i seen her. She's changed her number and claims to hate me so much. She just stared at me from a distance so i looked away then looked back and she still was looking until she walked down the street. i love her so much but i think i messed up. need advice

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony auntlol why is this funny, dude let her go theres tons of other girls out there., ok honestly this is what i would do i would go find her ask her why shes being a bitch and tell her your not taking no for an answer basically you want closure, But it sounds like you did something really Fdup

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2010):

She's really angry for you for a reason. Maybe try saying sorry and talking to her.

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A female reader, ms.rafaeli United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

ms.rafaeli agony aunt

Sometimes when people go mad, they say things they don't mean at all. The fact that she's mad at you tells me that she loves u and still cares about u. If she doesn't care about u, she wouldn't be so mad in first place.

When a girl breaks up with a guy and said something like that, that doesn't mean she doesn't love the guy anymore. She's just pissed at the fact the guy she loves could do such thing to her. That's why she went mad in first place. Although, whatever it is that u did, it's good enough to piss her off and break up with u. Women tend to make quick decision, which is often wrong, based on our emotional situation.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010):

Not a lot to go on here as far as how to help you, but to answer your question does my girlfriend hate me?

The opposite of love is indifference. Strong emotions like anger says she still cares very much for you.

However, she's pissed enough at you to break up with you.

Women usually break up with a guy while they are still in love in my opinion...because he treated her badly...we tend not to like that.

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