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writes:I've been with the same guy for three years and I've been living with him for two out of all and we've broken up twice and fight like cats an dogs. I'm not going to lie we were both once hard into digs and have quit but he hasn't I've gotten him to quit most but he still tends to do it alot expecially with our friends we always argue about it. We argue about partying and going out and most of the tim about stupidd stuff like how long it takes me to get ready or how I left shirts of his at my old place, money, work so many dumb things. I can hardly go out on my own because he's alwAys mad about who I'm with. But when we do get along it's magical and I couldn't ask for anything more in he world I just can take muh more of this I've moved out plenty times and I try to do my own thing but it doesn't work. It's so hard to talk to him because he freAks out and pretty much runs away from all his problems he always tells me I'm hitching and that I'm a horrible person plenty name calling done when we argue I really don't know what to do it's gotten to he point to were it starts to get violent when we fight and it's not pretty but in the end we always seem to laugh about it. I've been trying to spend quality time together but he's always working or doing work on other stuff after work OR were with his friends and when I ask to spend time just me and him it seems as if he dreads spending time with me as if it was a chore. I'm so frustrated I can hardly bare the next time we talk PLEASE HELP!!!!
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reader, channi  +, writes (17 January 2010):
honey find someone who really cares for you. I have been with the same guy for 26 years and nothing gets better. The longer your there the harder it is! He must not care to damn much or you would come first not his parting or his friends. I wish I could do it all over again i would do it different. There is alot of decent guys out there just shop around dont waste your life on someone thats makes you feel like you do. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): I have been with my husband for 26 years and your story reminds me of my very own. all we do is argue and fight he smokes a little wacky tobaccy and i hate it he wont quit.. we have two girls and i feel like im stuck. Honey if your not happy all the time find someone that will make you happy there is some good ones out there. Dont wait till kids get involved life is to precious to waste it on someone to give you that something special. I love my kids but Im ready for a divorce. We spend np quality time together and when we do see each other we argue over dumb shit. I am depressed and have gained like 40 pounds due to all this dont let it happen to you. He must not care to much or he would put you first. I run a bar so i see and hear all types of things and most men are not true! Good Luck!!!
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