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He messed with my head telling me he wanted to get back together when he didn't, did I do the right thing telling him to f*** off?

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Question - (17 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

After a month of NC with my ex boyfriend, he text me telling me he misses me, that he loves me and he would do anything to get me back.

I didn't reply, but on Friday after thinking about it for a long time sent him a text telling him I loved him and completely share his feelings and want us to go back to how we were.

He didn't reply.

So this morning I sent him a text telling him to leave me alone and not to contact me ever ever again because he's a sick, twisted person playing games with me and seeing how far he can push me and mess with my feelings, because it just twigged with me that he doesn't love me or want me back, he just wanted to see if he still had me and was testing me.

I want to get over this lame twat for good, I never want to speak to him ever again coz even when he's dumped me he still wants to torment me, but did I do the right thing telling him he's sick and twisted and telling him to leave me the hell alone and that I hate him and never wanna hear from him ever again?

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A female reader, Katiekins86 United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

Katiekins86 agony auntwell done you, totally the right thing to do. x

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A female reader, Brooklyngirl United States +, writes (17 January 2010):

Brooklyngirl agony auntYes! Absolutely the right thing! No one has the right to play with your head like that!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

Yes you did the right thing. I suspect he was looking for that, but the best thing you can do now is to delete him completely, and never speak to him again.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

starfairy agony auntYou gave him the response he wanted...But I would leave it now. Delete his number, facebook etc, even if he contacts you, delete the text etc immediately...You ignoring him will torment him more.

And yes you definately did the right thing!

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