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41-50,
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writes:Okay hers my problem. Back in Nov. I met the most amazing woman. She was everything I have ever wanted in woman and more. During the next month we had a really great time together. She told me that she loved me and that I was the first person that she had ever said that to. I love her as well, she told me I was her soulmate. After about a month she called and said we need a break, that thing were too intense and too fast. I thought that I would never hear from her again but a week later she called me. She said she wan't sure if she wanted a relationship or not and that the only kind of relationship that she could have with me isa really intense one. I told her that I am still crazy about her and that I ain't going anywhere. We talked everyday up untill about two weeks ago. During our conversations she would say I don't really know you, I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship yet. She came over last Friday and I can tell how she feels about me. We went out to eat and she leaned over and kissed me a few times during the night, she grabbed my hand and was touching me. She tells me she misses me and says she can't wait to be in my arms again. Together we are great but apart it seems different.She asked if she could come over on Wed. Tues. was her B-day and she was out partying with her parents all night, when I asked her on Wed. if she was coming over she said no she wasn't feeling well and was tired and that she would call me the next day. Here it is Sat and I have still not heard from her. I know she needs her space she told me so and I don't want to smother her. When we were together on Sat. she told me she thought it was cute when I ignored her when she says shes not sure if she wants a relationship or not. I told her that I'm not giving up. Sometimes I feel like a part time boyfriend, she told my she was head over heels for me and that I was the only person to make her climax during sex. Again, together I get all this love and affection from her but apart I feel like she ignores me sometimes. What should I do?(sorry if this is a mess, was typed on my iphone)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Okay, so there is an imbalance in your relationship. She is getting all the fun and companionship from her families and friends and sex from you and all you get is sex and hopefully intimacy. Maybe you put too much expectations on her. You may get hurt and frustrated in the future. I imagine that you want more one on one moments with your woman. So your girlfriend isn't that amazing as if you have described. Stopping wanting something that's out of your reach. It's unlikely that she would ignore her family and friends to satisfy your needs.
But be proud that you could make a woman come. That's really a bonus.
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