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writes:well hi thereit's kind of a long story but anyway here it is I have met a guy after a year he asked me to marry him, we are completely coming from different culture he is christian and I'm Muslim he changed his religion as I can't marry someone who is not muslim, anyway in my country it's not allowed to get married with a non local, like if he is not from my country we can't get married and he is not. I really do love him and I don't know what to do, if we got married the government will take my nationality, I'll be without a passport I'll lose lots of things. My parents don't accept the guy coz of race but i believed that I can change their mind but the problem is my government I feel so lost this doesn't seem fair I should choose who i wanna be with. I know you might tell me to just let it goes as it can't work, I tried and I found it so hard I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx anyway
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (17 January 2010):
I understand that, but if your government is what you find to be unfair and you don't have the right to marry who you want, I would assume you wouldn't want to live there anyway. But that's a big compromise, I understand that. But I come from a very different culture, so to me it's as simple as doing what you want by finding a place where you can do what you want. I was just giving a suggestion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif I got you right, even if I went out of the country to get married I'll still lose my government will act toward it anyway
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (17 January 2010):
If your parents are very traditional, I highly doubt you'll be able to change their minds. You know them better than I do, but others I have known in your situation--their parents don't budge.
If your passport and the things that you'll lose are that important like say if you don't have them and you'll get deported, then those are things that you'll probably need. Maybe an option is to become a citizen of the country you are residing in now or whatever of your choice that you and your future hubby want to live in; then get married. That way you'll be out of your country that won't allow your marriage to take place and legally be a citizen of another country that way you won't have any problems. If you still want to live in your country and keep your nationality, then you'll have to abide by their rules.
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