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30-35,
*ayfinnigan
writes:im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt, i have seen his penis before and it is rather big and thick, he has poked me a lot of times and the most with three fingers, is my hymen broken yet? and will sex be really painful with him seeing as he has a big penis and i don't really have a wide vagina? please help asap xxxxx
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 You should simply provide each other ample foreplay, preferably including oral stimulation, and that should moisten your vagina nicely. Then when intercourse is beginning, he just has to insert very slowly. Your vagina will gradually expand to accept him. It is designed that way, and is capable of even expelling an eight pound baby. Don't worry as long as he is gentle with you.
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reader, lifeiswierd +, writes (17 January 2010):
yes, your hymen is broken..it's very close to the entrance of the vagina. seeing as it is broken, if you are aroused..and wet, it shouldn't hurt that much. don't expect it to be amazing though! the first time never is
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): Hymens dont usually break with fingers so probably not. Some females dont have one at all and dont bleed. Sex for the first time can be a little painful for some people, however when i first has sex id never been fingered and sex hurt slightly. he has used three fingers on you so if you do feel pain it should only be slight. Dont worry about it and make sure he goes gentle. Sex is natural and vaginas are designed for this. Dont worry x
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