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We messed around one night so does he like me more than a friend?

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Question - (11 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok im really confused. Me and afew of my mates went out one night one of which is a guy ive liked for a long time, things have always been difficult between us due to people(who we dont see no more) winding us up and so its made it awkward for us to totally be ourselves together. This particular night we went out and the other 2 left early and he asked me to stop out with him. We did, we had a great time messing around having fun, we werent drunk really tbh so i was shocked he was being that way with me. Things went a little further than i expected and he pulled me on his knee when we were messing around and we started cuddling. We were having a really good time however at times he seemed a little nervous like he was longing to cuddle me and was really scared.

Anyway we went out not long after with the same people and he went outside with the others(i was inside) at one point and he was talking to my mate. They were just talking about me apprantly(shes told me what happened) and various subjects got brought up and he said to her at one point how he wants me to be myself when they were talking about how i was being queit. His exact words were "i just want her to be herself and not try pretend to be something else. We came in here last week and she was being herself, we had a great night and i really enjoyed it, I like her for who she is"

Now that kinda confused me because my mates have noticed how he seems different with me in general apprantly hes seems abit shy but we dont talk easily and she said she wasnt sure how to take it. Did he mean he likes me just as a friend? Or did he mean he likes me has more than a friend? consdiering what happened the previous week. I was afraid he regreted what happened that week but he really enjoyed it and we got very close. Thanks for any help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010):

judging by his behavior it sounds like he likes you as more than a friend but is reluctant to show it (because hes a GUY!), hes just nervous maybe you should try going out for a drink or even coffee alone and see how it goes from there keep it as friends and see if anything happens try and be yourself and you never know some alone time could re-ignite the spark you've had.

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